Requesting relationship help?

[MrCoffee]

update guys
lsat night i was at work and a bunch of my friends walked in, girlfriend aswell i greeted her gave me the coldest shoulder ever. literally. and my boss commented on how much of a bitch she was being. Anyway when i got home they were all at my place playing video games looking at cars etc etc anyway spoke to her in a nother area and told her that you know shes been acting kind of weird and i knew she was having some problems or soemthign with me or soemthing like that becaue right now everyone is up in the air and i have no idea whats going on. Anyway she really couldnt give me a answer but i did it in such a way that she felt comfortable to hang around me and treat me as a friend anyway later we spoke over the phone, and i recommended that maybe we should just be friends. Anyway she wasnt sure she didnt really want to but I kind of forced her into an answer, so now were just friends... anyway i think its better, i dont think it was right match anyway. Anyway thanks for all your advice. Im better off now. After we started dating this thing showed me that i really didnt want to be with her...
btw who ever said you have to get in, in the first two weeks good job i totally agree with you 100%

[KillerGremlin]

R.I.P.

Here lies period.

[Dylflon]

Oh high school kids and their high school problems/parties.

Enjoy it now. You won't think drinking and dumb parties where people put cummy condoms in your pockets are as cool anymore the minute you turn ninteen.

[Swan]

Originally Posted by Dylflon

Oh high school kids and their high school problems/parties.

Enjoy it now. You won't think drinking and dumb parties where people put cummy condoms in your pockets are as cool anymore the minute you turn ninteen.

We shall see...


MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[Fox 6]

Originally Posted by Swan

We shall see...


MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Speaking of drinking, that was the best way to end a competition.

[Angrist]

Ok I have my own weird thing going on right now, here it is:

2 weeks ago a girl of 19 and me discovered we liked eachother and we decided to give it a chance. We were unsure at first, but every time we've met, it's been great. I really love her and think it can/will work out. I might marry her one day.

The thing is.... I'm scared. So incredibly afraid of something, of her, of us. I don't understand why, but it makes my stomach ache when I think too much about it. First I thought it was maybe because of my ex, but I don't think that's it. Then I thought maybe we're just not a good combination but that isn't true either, we're great together.

Did anyone ever have that? Being afraid of good things to come? Afraid of a relation?

I came up with the following possible reasons:
- I'm just not ready yet, it's going too fast.
- She's 4.5 years younger than me and 8 years younger than my ex, it's so different.
- She might break up for the same reason my ex did... (some kind of nasty past I've had that's hard to accept - she has the right to know, I want to tell her in 1.5 months).

Today we talked about it and decided to take it very slowly, we specified 'slowly' (only meet 1 or 2x a week etc.).
Any thoughts/advice?

(PS: a few months ago I really got over my ex... when she wouldn't answer my mail. I'm disapointed by her, her love wasn't deep enough. I'd like to think that we were such a good match that we didn't have to love eachother very much... which caused problems in the long run.)

[Perfect Stu]

dude, i think your first problem is talking about 'falling in love' and a possible marriage TWO WEEKS after 'discovering [you] liked eachother".