Requesting relationship help?

[Angrist]

Originally Posted by MrCoffee

Angrist, I dno you but Im interested. How did you get over your ex?

Well, after a year I started to realise that she really didn't want me. I focussed more on the negative aspects of our relationship and figured that if she didn't break up over reason A in 2005, she would have over reason B in 2010. She just didn't have the love that's essential for a marriage.

Now with my new girlfriend, it doesn't have the wow-factor that my ex had in the beginning, but we're connecting on a deeper level, we talk better about emotional things. That's is way more important than the surface level, everything that goes wrong there, you can catch in the deeper levels.

[MrCoffee]

Originally Posted by Angrist

Now with my new girlfriend, it doesn't have the wow-factor that my ex had in the beginning, but we're connecting on a deeper level, we talk better about emotional things. That's is way more important than the surface level, everything that goes wrong there, you can catch in the deeper levels.

Hmm, so your ex was a high school sweetheart?

[Angrist]

My ex was somebody I had mailed with for 2 years when we met up in real life. We both fell in love immediately, it was a great combo on first sight. Some examples: both vegetarian, we both liked LotR and Star Wars, fan of the same artists, both a bit crazy...

We were good together, we had a great time. I asked her to marry me and we became engaged. But now I see that she loved me as long as she had fun. When something came up that she hated so much, she decided to break up. Her love wasn't deep enough. I can't live with such a love, I'd always be scared she'd leave me.