SHe JUST WONT LEAVEeee...ArrgH*

[Su-Yin]

okay..this sounds so f***ing mean of me...but its starting to drive me nutz and i just have no idea what to do...i cant blieve im actually posting it on a forum...sigH*..ive got a girlfriend...weve been friends for a long ass time.....like 7-8 years...well im studying in sydney now..and shes here too...i would suppose shes a real nice friend and stuff...but she gets carried away sometimes...by other ppl who she thinks she rather hang out with(other than me) cuz im not her 'type'...well back to the point...shes got male issues...and her so called friends are neglecting her....and she comes running to me..i dont mind im happy to lend a hug...she comes to my place for lunch..and refuses to leave..its the third day...she wakes me up at 6/7 in the morning and asks for hugs and just cries for hours...i lie in bed..hug her...and well...she politely asks if she could stay another day...im like -_-'.....cuz first..im busy at uni and gym and stuff...and i really love privacy..someone living in my room bugs me..she eats all the stuff in the fridge(not mine) its my housemates..and keeps quiet about it..everytime im out..she freaking yaps on the phone like its ****ing free and she doesnt think i mind...she wears my clothes and wants to take them home with her cuz she cant wear the boyfriends jumpers anymore...im really starting to feel shes faking it...when shes hungry i go out and buyfood for her and stuff..and she just refuses to leave my room...she never offers to pay for any of her meals and well..im down to my very last penny...i really love her and i care..thats y i let her stay...but the thing is..how the **** do i tell her its not alright cuz im not comfortable...she gets all *....yin...please....please can i stay one more day...i hope its all right *teary eyed*..."....im like...yeahhhhhhh....its kay...*fakes a smile...
there...help me...

[Ginkasa]

Just tell her how you feel; set some boundries. If she still continues to act like that, kick her out.

Simple.


*shrugs and walks away*

[Typhoid]

Um...im not a genius here, but maybe you should tell her. Just say your housemate or roommate or whatever doesnt want her there anymore because she is eating all the food. If you dont tell her to f*** off ( but in a polite way) she will keep mooching off of you for a long time.

[Su-Yin]

Originally Posted by Typhoid

Um...im not a genius here, but maybe you should tell her. Just say your housemate or roommate or whatever doesnt want her there anymore because she is eating all the food. If you dont tell her to f*** off ( but in a polite way) she will keep mooching off of you for a long time.

how could i say ...please leave...=/...shes like one of the closest friends i have..not the best one though..
she talks to my housemate....i cant lie.. ill b the bitch of the year if i say " im not there for u when u need me"..=/ i hate stupid girly emotions...theyre just a pain to handle..i tell her to get over it..but she just cries and cries...i cant send her out the door crying...=/...right now im jsut playing simpsons on my media plaer 24/7 for her on my laptop..hoping she ll get the msg i cant entertain her...

[Typhoid]

Well then how do you expect to get rid of her if your not willing to do anything about it? you both know she has to leave sometime, and im pretty sure she knows what shes doing.

If your too scared or whatever to say anything, your just giving her a free ride to stay. Maybe she knows you wont tell her to leave if she cries at the exact time she asks to stay another night. Think about it, you would be alot less emotional about it if she asked you while your eating or watching TV, but if shes crying you'll feel sorry for her.


And dont say " Im not here for you when you need me" thats stupid.

Just say something like " I dont think its best for you to stay here right now, because i like my privacy, and i im busy alot and need some time to myself"

Something like that.

[Yugi Starwind]

if you really feel like she's an inconvenince, tell her, but don't go and say something like.."you can't stay here anymore. get the F*** out." you gotta tell her what's on your mind about her and this fix you're in with her.

[Hero2]

Originally Posted by happygirl666

right now im jsut playing simpsons on my media player 24/7 for her on my laptop

Well thats the problem who could leave a place were there showing the simpsons 24/7.

if you tell her to get on with her life and give her a freindly shove out the door and say "hey Im srry that this sh*t happend to you but cring wont fix it, lift your head up high and dry your eyes get on with life and live it to its fullest". and if that doesnt work just say "ohh well I tried now get the hell out" j/k

[Jason1]

Bad stuff always happens when people start to post threads about personal issues...always...

[Ginkasa]

*considers the new blogs which are, for all intents and purposes, all about members personal lives and issues*

O_o


*shrugs and walks away*