Really scared, what should I do?

[TheGrimReaper]

Oh man I was just scared out of my wits. I was walkin out of my school, and this guy that I used to know was there with some other guy, so Im just like "k whatever" and walk off. About 5 steps later, the guy I dont know says "Hey thats him" so i'm like what? And I turn around. The guy I dont know says to me "Have you been giving crap to my freind?". I was tempted to say "Yes, a nice big one that I found this morning, but I know by crap, he meant anooying him, plus I didnt know who he was talking about, so I said "No, who is your freind?" and he said "It doesnt matter" So I said, k then and walked off. then he pushed me and said, what bus do you catch, and I said I dont catch the bus. He said "I'll get you soon enough".

Please help me guys, I dont know what to do.

[nWoCHRISnWo]

Well you could start by not letting people walk all over you.

[TheGrimReaper]

Well I was at school, in school uniform, so if I did anything I would have got in serious trouble.

But I think he might come back

[fingersman]

i thought you were grimreaper...master if death??

Ok all jokes aside...Just tell him you don't know what he's talking about....and tell him you wanna know what the deal is. Now don't be like agressive and stuff...that might get your ass beat in and don't show that your afraid as sh!t either ( although you probadly are) ANd while talking to him look at him at face level. Whatever you do don't act like a wimp. But don't act like you'll beat the guy's ass in either.

BTW have you been giving crap to anyone???


Oh yeah and when worst comes to worst .....take a piece of
4 X 4 and wet him. j/k

I don't know how my advice sounds.........Xantar is usually better at this sort of thing. But if you feel uneasy about my advice don't follow it.

[Xantar]

I don't know how the Australian school system is, so I can't really give you detailed advice. I know that American public schools don't deal with bullies very well (thus I learned martial arts). But maybe Australian school authorities will actually do something if somebody beats you up. I don't know.

I can't remember whether you said that you know any martial arts, but I don't think you do. A shame, really, but you can't fix that now. The methodology of dealing with these people is all in the attitude. That's what martial arts gives you more than anything else. People who have studied martial arts for a long time have this supremely confident and unafraid look about them. They are not cocky and arrogant. That's a different thing. What they do, however, is look people right in the eye and don't retreat when advanced on. They give no sign, in other words, that they are afraid of the other personÑusually because they genuinely aren't. And when they speak, it's always in a level voice. No anger, no hurt, no fear.

You could try pretending that you actually know him really well. That way you can treat him the same way you treat little siblings. Because the truth is you really are superior.

If worse comes to worst (and I'm not convinced that it will), do not throw the first punch. Don't throw the second or third one either. This is very hard to do, but you have to make it absolutely clear who the victim is. At the worst, if you get injured in any way, authorities will believe you when you say that you were hazed.

And if at all possible, avoid confrontation. Walk away if you think a fight is coming. He may tackle you from behind, but if he tackles you from the front, your chances of beating him up are more or less the same anyway.

My best guess, based on limited information, is that he's screwing around with you. For that, he deserves your contempt, not your fear. This is the attitude I would approach the situation with, but it's very hard to strike the balance between being superior and being confrontational.

And remember, the authorities are there to help you if and when some kind of confrontation occurs. Who cares if it makes you look like a weenie? You shouldn't worry what other people think about you anyway.

P.S. Why so scared out of your wits? He's not likely to kill you or even permanently damage you. Pain is something you will learn to deal with as you grow up.

[Ravishing Rick Rude]

He pushed you from behind?

You owe him one then, next time he talks to you and then turns him back..... Sucker punch him in the back of the head, and when he turns around, just start throwing Jackhammer punches, he will learn not to mess with you anymore

[Joeiss]

I say give him a swift kick in the sack. Hey, why not? If you think this guy can beat you up, why not get a cheap shot in that could save you from damage?

Or... You can just talk to that guy that you used to know (who was with the guy that was harrasing you). Then you could find out why the hell this whole incident happened. Unless you were giving crap to that guy you used to know, and then he got his friend to take you out...

[Gamer]

Hmm, If there is someone who is pissing you off, or scaring you...welll you could carry a weapon, thats what i did in a situation almost the same, but if you dont own a knife or something, make sure you have some streghnth man, like if you can fist fight, thats the best of pretection. Although if you are in serious trouble you could take the walk of "shame" andrun like hell! I could give you the recipe for a little thing that could blow the **** out of his car and no one would know who did it!

I dont know exactly what to do, but dont want ya to get the beats, i know some guys who got the beats, one had plastic surgery(on his face) and the other i havent seen since. But i think the best thing to do would be to try to avoid him, if you see him well just keep walking. You could always talk to someone about it too, like maybe to a teacher or something, he cant get you if you are in the school. Well i hope this helps! Anyways, hope for the best. Go get em!

[DeathsHand]

Beat the guy to death with a bat... you'll be doing him a favor by putting the thick headed azzhole out of his misery...

People who fight in school'n'such and threaten people like that, IMO, are just morons who don't know any other way to deal with things...



"I weel pounj00 into ze grownd becuz eye am beeg an toof! Graaarrr! Fear mee!"

But... that's just me.... *runs away*

[Perfect Stu]

Damn I wish I was you...

Perfect opportunity to give people a beating, and you might not even get in trouble for it (if you're sneaky )

If the guy "bothers" you again, tell him to f*ck off...if he doesn't, kick his ass...and if he's bigger or tougher than you, kick him in the crotch, it always works...

Good luck

[Shadow_Link]

You have any big friends or older brothers?

Okay, just incase you don't. Firstly, try find an alternate route to your home, a way in which he won't be able to find you, etc... Walk home with some mates?
If you can't do the above, then try out Xantar's way first, and if worst comes to worst, you may just have to consider D_Beckham7's option... If you do decide to carry a form of protection, try pepper spray (CS spray), hehe...

I would try and avoid fighting this person. If you're lucky, this might be one dumb joke...

[gekko]

Bust out your glock and show the bastard who's boss!

[TheGrimReaper]

Thanks for the advice guys.

And no, I havent been messin with anybody. Hopefully by today he would have gone away, see I told one of his freinds in my class to tell him to leave me alone (He's gonna listen to his freind more than me right?) and the guy in my class said Yeah ill stop it.

But if it happens again, and he uses violence, I am going to defend myself.

But anywayz, thanks for the advice guys, its reassured me a lot.

Espicially Xantar, thanks man.

I'll tell you guys how it goes.

[Yugi Starwind]

good luck,man. Don't let him get to ya.

[GameMaster]

Rely on man's natural instincts buried deep down underneath mannerism and other social etiquete that you and all the rest of us have been drowned in. Connect with your "animal" side if necessary.