Ace's blog entry 15Dec04

Ace195 · 12-15-2004, 08:45 PM

I couldn't think of a catchy title so here's the entry. I was having a good day to start with, then I got my wireless router and had to figureout how to get my laptop to accept the wireless information, got that made me happy, then my girlfriend whom I haven't seen for a weekend chooses not to call me.

She calls her friends, grandma, and aunt.. But not me she's like " Lets wait until I have free mins." She has 1500 mins, wtf ? eh.. no biggie but I make it a big deal. ( I can't seem to control it now adays) I'm like so your friends are more important than me eh. ( I've had a jealous feeling latley that I can't shake) and she's like seth stop being a jerk so I apologize but she gets angry again quickly..

Then down the road she tells me that she has to babysit on saturday and sunday night, and that I'm not able to go.. Huh?!?! alarms are going off in my head because I've gone baby sitting with her before but now I can't whats the deal with that so I ask her why not and she gets mad at me and says I'm making a big deal of things again. Am I ?

Argh, I don't know what to think am I just being paranoid or do I have a reason to be wondering WTF who know I just had to get my feeling out before I explode.

thankyou

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GameMaster · 12-15-2004, 08:49 PM

Maybe the parents don't allow their babysitters to bring guests with them? Instead of waiting for the girlfriend to call you, why not call her?

Vampyr · 12-16-2004, 06:08 PM

Yeah, keep the ball in your court. Don't put anything in their hands unless you know prior how they react, or are just curious to what reaction they may have. It's like a game...and it keeps things exciting. I think you may have been over reacting a bit...

I think you just need to build more tension and excitement in your relationship. Do things that are unexpected, next time, say you have to go somewhere and she can't came.

It will probably aggravate her, then you can do something romantic.

Then again I have no idea what your relationship is like, I'm a 17 year old guy sitting at his computer giving dating advice, and I was bored.