F*ed Up

[KillerGremlin]

So, pardon me for being a dick. But I'm gonna be blunt. I'm not in any position to be criticizing your best friend or your exgirlfriend without getting your non-abbreviated version of the story. Not to call BS or you one-sided, but in 99.9% of these stories there are two sides and one side gets underrepresented. It might be different if I knew you better or knew your web of friends, but this is some forum on some website across the anonymous Interwebz.

I mean don't get me wrong, Teuthida. I sympathize with your situation and I think it sucks. And I agree with most of the given advice...if it went down as cold and ruthless as you said, then you might want to consider axing that friendship with your best friend since he is pushing some major boundary issues. But still gotta ask:

-How did your best friend come to know your Ex-Girlfriend? Was anything ever going on there that you might have missed? Did they ever hang out before? WHY did they hang out?

-How come you don't communicate with your best friend more? Shit, my best friend goes to a different college but with texting and cellphones I talk to him at least a few times a week. Even if it is just a text or if we just share a dumb joke or something.

-Why is your mom getting involved with your intimate social business? I guess this one isn't as important.

So my best and only friend from high school

Do tell, why did you hate your high school life. (I'm assuming) Here's a topic I think I can relate to with you on to some extent.

Now, I know it is totally rude to pry into your personal life. But you wanted some attention, hence you made this nifty thread. So I'm just keeping the wheels moving here in what I consider a pretty natural progression. I will not submit to giving any clear-cut instructions or advice without getting a better explanation of your story though.