Requesting relationship help?

[Neo]

Girls aren't for talking, they're for *******. They're also useful for ****** **** until you *** ****. You can also **** them **** backwards and **** their sweet ******** ****.


Actually what you should do is ask her open-ended questions, especially about things she likes. Everyone's favorite topic is themselves. Say "Tell me about..." or "How do you feel about....." If she gives a one word answer just stare at her with a "go on" look and she'll keep talking to break the awkward silence.

[MrCoffee]

okay so i left out a valid piece of information, she talks fine over chat, and text messages...I try not to whip it out, Im pretty sure Dylan set himself back aways with that.

[KillerGremlin]

the solution is simple, no yes or no questions

of course, in the most natural relationships that just comes naturally, conversation is usually not ever a problem

but sometimes you need to be sly, so make sure to ask questions that require 5 or more word responses

"where do you stand on global politics?"

[Typhoid]

but when I try to initiate conversation she usually gives one word answers or very short that are impossible to go somewhere with.

This sounds more like friend material to me.
No matter how amazing you think she is, or how awesome she seems to be, there'll always be that distant level of awkwardness, unless you two can get over your hormonal rage and actually talk.

Right now, it seems (though I know nothing of you two) you could be masking the awkwardness of hanging out with playing games. You both dont have to talk, and you're both still together. So it's as if you're cheating your way along. Sure you're spending time with eachother, but you're not really getting to know eachother, or talking about...well...anything.

[Angrist]

Originally Posted by Dyne

Out-silence her!

I like that. Keep your mouth shut for so long that she'll ask you what's the matter. Then you're in some big trouble because you have to explain, but at least you're talking.

Originally Posted by KillerGremlin

"where do you stand on global politics?"

"Don't Know". Two words, I win.

I was going to advise to do something else than gaming, but it looks like you did that last night. Good job.

[Joeiss]

You've been dating for a month? Are you getting any action? If not, I doubt you guys are dating... How old are you?

A month of friendship usually burns the bridge for a relationship.. gotta get in there the first week or 2 man.

[Dylflon]

Originally Posted by MrCoffee

okay so i left out a valid piece of information, she talks fine over chat, and text messages...I try not to whip it out, Im pretty sure Dylan set himself back aways with that.

Who are you talknig about? What Dylan?

[Acebot44]

Originally Posted by Neo

Actually what you should do is ask her open-ended questions, especially about things she likes. Everyone's favorite topic is themselves. Say "Tell me about..." or "How do you feel about....." If she gives a one word answer just stare at her with a "go on" look and she'll keep talking to break the awkward silence.

Just what I was going to say