Why is it so hard...

[Yan]

The problem is... most of the people I liked/loved before my current relationship already had someone else on their minds. OR someone else that I know of fancies them too. So as usual, me being stuck in the middle, I'd rather back away slowly and just forget about it...

Of course, then you have the fear of rejection too...

[Typhoid]

I've told one girl, and one girl only that I loved her, and its only hard the first time.

Because you dont know how the other person will react.

Like, even when she said it to me, I could tell she was nervous. By the way she was acting.

Its so hard because of what the word means. Love is to care unconditionally for someone.

Yet loving someone, and Being In love with someone are totally different things.

I love 2 of my Girl friends, this doesnt mean I'm in love with them though. To secure that argument, I love my parents, sisters and brother, yet I dont plan on dating any of them ever.

Im jaded now though. Because I tell every girl I love her. Not in a serious way, all the time, When I say it Im usually joking, or I mean it in the way of a friend.

Despite the lack of feelings, it still changes it for you.