Marriage

[Su-Yin]

Originally Posted by Yan

One year may be enough to KNOW someone deeply. However, getting married is not as simple as understanding your partner. It is also about having mortgages, balancing career and a domestic life, having children (or not) and of course, the in-laws.

Hence, I would have to say that I will not marry (consider, yes) someone regardless of how much I am in love if I am not sure if I could work out all the matters I mentioned above especially if it is financial.

Yes, it is that superficial. Love doesn't pay the bills.

With regards to the parents, I am brought up in a society where going against the wishes of your parents is considered unfillial and basically, you go to hell (eyes are rolling, I know... ). I hope I'll never have to choose but if I have to... I'll choose family.

...nice ly said yan......i dont think im materialistic or superficial at all and i dont think u are either......i can support myself...no worries there....its not all about the money...but its all about sharing responsibilites...i wouldnt marry a couch potato just cuase i love him