Monogamy

[mickydaniels]

Originally Posted by manasecret

I hope I don't come off as an asshole (BIG warning sign).

But you're worried about making out? You must have some high moral standards, or maybe making out means something different to you.

I could see wanting to have sex only with girls you truly know and like/love, but making out isn't much of anything.

It isn't much of anything? Are you serious?

If you were to walk down the street and saw a couple kissing, what would your very first thought be? Likely, that they have feelings for each other and enjoy being in one another's company. You can't bring yourself to do intimate things with people you don't care for or hate. Which leads to people carrying feelings along. Which lead to repeated sessions. Which lead to relationships doomed to fail or seeing people as objects or 'tools of amorous satisfaction' instead of an actual human being.

[Happydude]

Originally Posted by mickydaniels

It isn't much of anything? Are you serious?

If you were to walk down the street and saw a couple kissing, what would your very first thought be? Likely, that they have feelings for each other and enjoy being in one another's company. You can't bring yourself to do intimate things with people you don't care for or hate. Which leads to people carrying feelings along. Which lead to repeated sessions. Which lead to relationships doomed to fail or seeing people as objects or 'tools of amorous satisfaction' instead of an actual human being.

couldn't have said it better myself...

[Crono]

Originally Posted by mickydaniels

It isn't much of anything? Are you serious?

If you were to walk down the street and saw a couple kissing, what would your very first thought be? Likely, that they have feelings for each other and enjoy being in one another's company. You can't bring yourself to do intimate things with people you don't care for or hate. Which leads to people carrying feelings along. Which lead to repeated sessions. Which lead to relationships doomed to fail or seeing people as objects or 'tools of amorous satisfaction' instead of an actual human being.

Whenever I see people "making out" on the street (especially younger people), they're doing it to show off. Because these days it's "cool" to have a girlfriend, it's "cool" to make out, everything is now is about looking good in front of other people. Don't tell me that a guy with a HOT chick is kissing her in the street just because "he loves her", it's because he wants to show off to the other guys who might happen to be there.

These days love is just a game. A game that half of the people these days seem to lose while playing it.

[DimHalo]

I'm sorry but you have a very bleak outlook. It is crappy to know that people feel that way (and unfortunately there are a lot of people that do)... I completely disagree with the thought. But I don't push my beliefs on others as long as my friends are not getting hurt.

[Crono]

Originally Posted by jeepnut's slave

I'm sorry but you have a very bleak outlook. It is crappy to know that people feel that way (and unfortunately there are a lot of people that do)... I completely disagree with the thought. But I don't push my beliefs on others as long as my friends are not getting hurt.

I was only saying what is true and what I've seen for myself. I don't like to think that people think that way, and I myself will never think that way either. But.. it's just the world we live in.

[Typhoid]

Yeah, i dont really think making out with a girl is a big deal. As long as you know her. Ive made out with a few girls at party's that i havn't known for long. But i might have been brought up to think less of it than other people.