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Originally Posted by Dylflon
I really don't think she'll read too much into it.
...she makes more money than me anyways.
Besides, we had a good time. If she had fun, I don't think I really blew my first impression.
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I dont think you blew it either. From what I read, you handled it very well. You did have a chance to buy her drink, but you didnt know what she wanted. What if you had bought her something terrible? Not only would your first impression have been ruined, but everytime she thought of you she would be riminded of that unpleasent coffee taste in her mouth. There are some girls who like for the guy to take control and order their stuff for them, but most of the ones I know like to get what they want. So I think you did the right thing. And, if you had stopped her halfway up there to ask if you could buy it, it would be way to obvious that you were trying to impress her or make it a un-casual date.
However, had you both been at the register at the same time, things would probably have been different. In such a situation, you could have been like "What do you want?"
You described yourself as having this whole "charming" thing going on...and from my experiances, that's the best thing you can have. Because they will be attracted to you and there will be something about you that they like that they just cant put their finger on...
Anyway, good job.
