View Full Version : What turns you on?
DimHalo
02-01-2005, 01:05 AM
So what is it that gets you going? (please nothing too graphic/vulgar) Is there a specific feature of the other sex that you pay particular close attention to?
Mine has always been the eyes, but I have a definate type that I tend to fall for.
Typhoid
02-01-2005, 01:08 AM
Well, I like a girls Eyes, And her Smile.
But you dont want anything graphic....so lets leave it at that.
Oh, and Tongue Rings, are super horrible. Only sometimes...I wouldnt want my GF to have one. They look too slutty. Bellybutton rings however, are hot. But only on girls without massive pudge.
The Germanator
02-01-2005, 01:20 AM
It's pretty much a combination of facial features for me. I guess the overall appearance of the face is number one, then the smile, and then her laugh. If the girl has an enchanting laugh, then she is certainly a winner because there's nothing more beautiful than a pretty girl laughing.
Though right after I noticed those things in a girl, I'd have to be "turned on" by her personality. She has to be a bit shy and mysterious (usually) for me to be interested in a girl. I'm not sure exactly how to describe it, but I've seen it in the handful of girls I've had crushes on.
I realize everyone can have attractive facial features if you take proper care of yourself. (Unless you're naturally deformed.)
Me? I go for naturally healthy, undyed, dark hair. I love brunettes. And then combined with glasses, it melts me. A distinct smell couldn't hurt either, but perfume is easy to apply.
But don't let this secret out to ANYONE. :sneaky:
Typhoid
02-01-2005, 01:50 AM
I realize everyone can have attractive facial features if you take proper care of yourself. (Unless you're naturally deformed.)
Me? I go for naturally healthy, undyed, dark hair. I love brunettes. And then combined with glasses, it melts me. A distinct smell couldn't hurt either, but perfume is easy to apply.
But don't let this secret out to ANYONE. :sneaky:
Does their name also have to start with a "B"?
Blackmane
02-01-2005, 02:33 AM
I like the hair. I am a sucker for shorter dark hair. Especially on good looking girls. A good smile is important and a fun, sensual personality is good too.
Crash
02-01-2005, 03:33 AM
I like the hair. I am a sucker for shorter dark hair. Especially on good looking girls. A good smile is important and a fun, sensual personality is good too.
i was going to say the same thing... brunettes (dark haired ones) are the hottest...
girls that wear baseball hats = hottest thing ever!
http://www.startua.com/blin/pix/3607.jpg
asian girls with blue eye makeup is also off the hook
DeathsHand
02-01-2005, 04:10 AM
nothing...
Is that odd at all to anybody?
If you are asking me to describe a specific look that I am attracted to, this will be it:
brunnette
green eyes
tall and broad shouldered
preferably the artsy, bohemian type
Then again, fate has a funny way of working. I end up with a blonde haired, blue eyed, stocky guy who cares more about the economy than writing poetry for me (actually, he attempted to do it once and I was greatly touched).
Lame jokes are aplenty and he makes me laugh so in the end, I guess that's all that matters :)
Canyarion
02-01-2005, 07:01 AM
There's not just 1 type of girl that I like... I like a lot of looks!
But the face is very important. And the attitude, I don't want a bitchy girl.
A sexy body is a nice addition. :D
Jonbo298
02-01-2005, 09:00 AM
For me, its an overall look (spur of the moment) of the face. Hard to explain what I look for because its different with each woman. If the face looks good, I'll typically just glance over the body, its not as important but if the body is nice, gotta look :p But usually after the face I go more for personality, etc..in that area
Su-Yin
02-01-2005, 09:07 AM
....character...
i dont know.... funny guys are a definate + ....but a well dressed, matured, serious and mentally strong person will make me go ga-ga in 2 seconds
but if were getting at physical features it wud b height .....lips...abs...feet...*shrug* nice clean and soft feet are so sexy...
Happydude
02-01-2005, 09:16 AM
....character...
i dont know.... funny guys are a definate + ....but a well dressed, matured, serious and mentally strong person will make me go ga-ga in 2 seconds
but if were getting at physical features it wud b height .....lips...abs...feet...*shrug* nice clean and soft feet are so sexy...
:lol:
There's not just 1 type of girl that I like... I like a lot of looks!
But the face is very important. And the attitude, I don't want a bitchy girl.
A sexy body is a nice addition. :D
i'd have to say the same.
fingersman
02-01-2005, 09:20 AM
For me, its an overall look (spur of the moment) of the face. Hard to explain what I look for because its different with each woman. If the face looks good, I'll typically just glance over the body, its not as important but if the body is nice, gotta look :p But usually after the face I go more for personality, etc..in that area
Your Sig is saying something totally different to what your saying :p
but if were getting at physical features it wud b height .....lips...abs...feet...*shrug* nice clean and soft feet are so sexy...
And now I finally understand why happydudette has feet in her avantar.
A nice smile, cute face, a small build overall. I'd like to say my girlfriend is "cute like a baby", instead of "very beautiful".
And although I always find myself looking at blonde girls, I tend to fall for brunettes.
Personality is important too. She has to be willing to make sacrifices for me (as I would do for her).
And she has to be smart - when I tell her something, she shouldn't ask me what I'm talking about.
That's pretty much it. It's more like the answer to "what do you look for in a girl" than "what turns you on", but sometimes I can't help myself...
Blackmane
02-01-2005, 10:08 AM
Oh, another actual turn on is good kissin'.
DimHalo
02-01-2005, 10:28 AM
hmm, some good answers
mine tends to be eyes (gotta have great eyes), dark hair, and a fun smile
personality type is hard to find one particular one that i've been attracted to (every one seems to be different)
and being tall has sort of been common with me, but one of my biggest "crushes" in high school was on a guy who was only 5'7"
PS: I didn't put this in the Love forum originally because I figured it would be gone today.
Su-Yin
02-01-2005, 10:49 AM
And now I finally understand why happydudette has feet in her avantar.
happydude's feet are awesOMe.... SexEeehHH~ :p :D
TheSlyMoogle
02-01-2005, 11:03 AM
I like someone who has an attractive face, especially when smiling, because I notice that first. I like someone with soft hair, and it's great if they're good at kissing. I like someone who also likes to cuddle, there's nothing better than wrapping your arms around someone and just holding them. I enjoy a nice scent, because scent is so memorable, I don't want to remember a foul one. I also enjoy it when someone isn't afraid to look into my eyes when we're into those moments less mentionable on GT, because there's something so much more intimate about that than the act itself. Oh and someone fresh out of the shower is always gorgeous.
Su-Yin
02-01-2005, 11:28 AM
I like someone who has an attractive face, especially when smiling, because I notice that first. I like someone with soft hair, and it's great if they're good at kissing. I like someone who also likes to cuddle, there's nothing better than wrapping your arms around someone and just holding them. I enjoy a nice scent, because scent is so memorable, I don't want to remember a foul one. I also enjoy it when someone isn't afraid to look into my eyes when we're into those moments less mentionable on GT, because there's something so much more intimate about that than the act itself. Oh and someone fresh out of the shower is always gorgeous.
*tear....
u just made me miss happydude being in sydney :(
Jonbo298
02-01-2005, 11:54 AM
Your Sig is saying something totally different to what your saying :p
It is? :hmm:
Joeiss
02-01-2005, 12:28 PM
It's all about the bum. If she has a nice bum, she turns me on.
dropCGCF
02-01-2005, 03:51 PM
Eyes.
Happydude
02-01-2005, 03:53 PM
lol...i was acually expecting either you or Stu to post that :p
and no, you don't get a cookie!
Acebot44
02-01-2005, 04:43 PM
What Bube said plus some sort of athleticism in the girl. A girl that never moves is a bore to me.
ulala06
02-01-2005, 04:51 PM
hmmm... throats... like their neck not the inside... :D
and uhmmm... wow i really like guys' throats.
god i'm weird.
Typhoid
02-01-2005, 05:07 PM
hmmm... throats... like their neck not the inside... :D
and uhmmm... wow i really like guys' throats.
god i'm weird.
.....
Wow.
ulala06
02-01-2005, 05:55 PM
.....
Wow.
i'm like... a vampire or something! lol
HEY! 200 posts! :beat: :beat: :beat:
Vampyr
02-01-2005, 06:25 PM
HEY! 200 posts!
Hey Typh, aren't you supposed to smack down that celebration, by order of Null?
And there are a lot of things I'm attracted to, but my first impression (which is the most important, because if I don't get a good one I end not to think beyond it), would be the face. She needs to have a pretty face for me to be into her, everything else is second place. Not that second place isn't important. Just don't be fat, and have a pretty face, that's all I want. And I have to be able to have fun with her. If someone is really really fun to be around, it will make up for SOME physical anomalies. Although some things are just not fixable.
That sounds shallow. Oh well. It aggravated me when someone says "looks don't matter to me", because I KNOW they are lying. To some extent, looks always matter. They always do.
Other than having a pretty face, certain things and actions that "turn me on" is having good hair. If a girl takes time to fix her hair and make it pretty, I notice it very quickly, even if it's just something simple. I really like curly hair too. And I love it when I tease a girl and she teases me back. Gold.
And if a girl has a pretty face and uses it to pout. That's lustfull.
And I'm going to stop now.
GameMaster
02-01-2005, 06:27 PM
I have a thing for eyes. Then I work my way down beginning at the legs.
....character...
i dont know.... funny guys are a definate + ....but a well dressed, matured, serious and mentally strong person will make me go ga-ga in 2 seconds
but if were getting at physical features it wud b height .....lips...abs...feet...*shrug* nice clean and soft feet are so sexy...
Lol... Happydudette, I don't know if you remember this but when we were wayyyy younger we used to get a piece of paper and list down all the things we wanted in a guy. I was doing a spring clean a couple of years back and I found one of them. Most of them are still pretty true, heh.
Happydude
02-01-2005, 08:23 PM
Hey Typh, aren't you supposed to smack down that celebration, by order of Null?
that's my job...and it's only for threads :)
Stray_Bullet
02-01-2005, 08:24 PM
Naturally, a girl could have a beautiful body and an ugly face and be out of question... likewise, a girl with a beautiful face and a terrible body might not be too appealing. It takes both, of course.
I am attracted by the kind and sincere. I like a sense of humor, a sense of spontaneity, a sense of flexibility (on a physical sense too... oooh yes), and quite importantly... a common sense.
I usually prefer darker hair, but it really depends how well it hangs, how well it's taken care of, how it matches the skin tone, and how flat it is. I like straight hair, usually.
I like the medium-shorter girls... 5'3" - 5'6" ish. I'm not won-over by the long bodies of tall girls (though long legs on a medium girl is nice).
I prefer light skin to dark skin (tan lines are not attractive). Symmetry of the face... rounded features (opposed to pointed features)...
Of course, there are breasts that are too small, but there are also breasts that are too large. Proportions determine that though.
I like soft bodies, most of all. I'm not saying the girl has to be fat... but I'd prefer a little fat over muscle. If I want muscle, I can squeeze my own arm. I like a girl that's comfortable. A soft neck, soft cheeks, soft stomach... wonderful. It helps the appearance, too. I don't like twigs.
Things I like about my girl? She has cute little feet and hands.. her smile is contagious, she's zany, outgoing, and kind. She cares about me a lot, enjoys spending time with me (whatever the occasion), and she's very open.
She's a dancer (good for those legs.. oooh) and singer. We go horseback... we play games...
I like that she's forward but not pushy, confident but not arrogant, and honest.
In the day she is cute, at night she is beautiful. She'd be hard to replace if I lose her.
Happydude
02-01-2005, 08:37 PM
She's a dancer (good for those legs.. oooh) and singer. We go horseback... we play games...
who's the horse? :D
jk :p
...if i wouldn't have made the joke, GM would have!
Jonbo298
02-01-2005, 08:38 PM
Sounds like you found the perfect Girl there Stray. And it does sound like it would be hard to replace a girl like that
Joeiss
02-01-2005, 08:46 PM
My best friend's dad told me something that I will never forget about women:
"A throat is a throat."
ahahaha... funniest, and truest advice ever!
Stray_Bullet
02-01-2005, 09:04 PM
who's the horse? :D
Saddle's nice, but I prefer bareback.
I have a thing for eyes. Then I work my way down beginning at the legs.
:lol:
funnay
What turns me on? Sexy flannel lingerie does it for me.
thong's get old. kind of sluttish too.
Teuthida
02-01-2005, 09:41 PM
Punk girls with bizarre hair coloring and a lot of eye liner. Glad I go to an art school in NYC. :D Oh, and can't forget the colored striped stockings...
DimHalo
02-02-2005, 12:50 AM
I have a thing for eyes. Then I work my way down beginning at the legs.
So what happens to the stuff in between the eyes and the legs?
It is interesting to hear what everyone has to say... throat? Anyway, I think a lot of it has to do with meshing with a person. Something you may not normally find very attractive may turn out to really "get you going" if it is someone that you love to be with.
Perfect Stu
02-02-2005, 08:50 AM
I'm all for a great smile, and laugh, and all that jazz...but it's already been posted so I'll go for something else:
NO SKINNY CHICKS. A girl should be soft...soft means healthy.
I'm also attracted to girls with child-bearing hips...it's a natural animal instinct.
I also like a nice mouth, and lips...like Angelina Jolie...or Scarlett Johansson
But dont get me wrong...personality comes first. A nice, attractive face is second.
DimHalo
02-02-2005, 09:49 AM
I like the sounds of that. I am getting tired of people thinking that the only thing that can be attractive in a girl is to be stick thin, and to have a dark (probably fake) tan
Happydude
02-02-2005, 10:00 AM
i don't like girls who are stick thin either...even though i'm a skinny guy, i don't like it when girls are too skiny...which most teens are right now.
Oh, I forgot! Being natural is very important. No makeup, no dressing up like somebody else and stuff like that.
IMO, a person shouldn't do anything to look nice. I should be attracted to her own face, not to one under layers of makeup.
Canyarion
02-02-2005, 11:15 AM
BTW my girlfriend happened to read this and she didn't understand me. She thought I acted like I'm still looking around. Of course I'm not, I could never love anybody more than my girl!!!!! :D
Anyway, wanted to get that straight....
Happydude
02-02-2005, 11:23 AM
Oh, I forgot! Being natural is very important. No makeup, no dressing up like somebody else and stuff like that.
IMO, a person shouldn't do anything to look nice. I should be attracted to her own face, not to one under layers of makeup.
EXACTLY! omg! i so do not like make up!...id on't understand why girls wear it all time time. i think it ruins their face instead of making it look better.
Su-Yin
02-02-2005, 11:35 AM
EXACTLY! omg! i so do not like make up!...id on't understand why girls wear it all time time. i think it ruins their face instead of making it look better.
then how do u suppose paris hilton and britney spears look like ****ing godesses on magazines then my dearest :)
...a **** load of makeup and shots over shots on the same pose and oh...how could i forget...air brushing...
girls wanna look as perfect as cover girls and its all peer pressure when girls grow up...
im not saying im DYING to start putting make up on...u know i hardly ever do...i dont even like it.....but when ur 20 and u go out wiht a bunch of friends ur age ....u dont want to look like a 14 year old standing at a bar...
DimHalo
02-02-2005, 11:38 AM
Yeah, sometimes I find myself putting makeup on more when I'm around my family because my 15 year old sister is taller than me ... and she was once mistaken to be the same as me (and I HATE that) ... jeepnut can tell you how much I would dislike that, because I dislike my sister so much
jeepnut
02-02-2005, 12:45 PM
jeepnut can tell you how much I would dislike that, because I dislike my sister so much
Indeed. It is quite possible that her hatred for her sister may one day give her super powers.
Yes, it's that strong.
GameMaster
02-02-2005, 12:50 PM
BTW my girlfriend happened to read this and she didn't understand me. She thought I acted like I'm still looking around. Of course I'm not, I could never love anybody more than my girl!!!!! :D
Anyway, wanted to get that straight....
Would you ask her to register so she can talk about love with us from the female perspective?
jeepnut
02-02-2005, 01:21 PM
Would you ask her to register so she can talk about love with us from the female perspective?
Angrist's girl on GT? That would be awesome. Sign her up!
Jonbo298
02-02-2005, 01:25 PM
Do I smell peer pressure coming? Do it Canya, get her to sign up :p
Blackmane
02-02-2005, 01:25 PM
Woo, a girl on a gaming forum!?!?! Thats crazy talk!!!
/me forgets about happydudette, jeepnut's slave, ulala, and all other girls on the forum for a moment.
:D
jeepnut
02-02-2005, 01:35 PM
Well, it's unanimous. Sign her up. The public demands it.
OMG, Angrist's Slave? COME OUT OF YER HOLE. :D
I'm working on a Dyne's Slave. :sneaky:
DimHalo
02-02-2005, 01:37 PM
Well, it's unanimous. Sign her up. The public demands it.
Yes, because you, Blackmane, and Jonbo make up the entirety of the forum.
Jonbo298
02-02-2005, 01:47 PM
Yes, because you, Blackmane, and Jonbo make up the entirety of the forum.
We do. Did you miss the memo :D
jeepnut
02-02-2005, 02:15 PM
Yes, because you, Blackmane, and Jonbo make up the entirety of the forum.
Yes. Well, everyone that matters anyways...
MuGen
02-02-2005, 02:26 PM
Consistency turns me on...
Also... the eyes... if I could just stare into her eyes for just 5 seconds and get lost in them....
Also...consistency... if she is attractive... I want her to be attractive without make up/just waking up/just getting out of shower/before going to sleep..... basically... I want my type of girl to look the same throughout the day...
I know a lot of girls that look real good with makeup on and take it off and are just.... meh...
Happydude
02-02-2005, 03:13 PM
Yes. Well, everyone that matters anyways...
HEY! :mad:
sign her up angrist!
DimHalo
02-02-2005, 03:17 PM
Yes. Well, everyone that matters anyways...
grrr... I would minus rep you for that if I were mean
/me goes and sulks while playing Mario Tennis
KillerGremlin
02-02-2005, 06:07 PM
There's this girl....she's a year younger then me....and she's the most beautiful person I have ever met. She's not slutty or hot though...she's pretty. It's hard to describe, but there's a fine line between being beautiful/pretty and being hot. Hot often implies fake, or even slutty.
Personally....I like personality. I mean, I hate girls that are conformed. I hate the whole stereotypical female in society BS. Personality goes a long way. Looks are important too, of course, but I wouldn't pursue a long term relationship with some airhead that didn't have her own thoughts or ideas. Sure, I might have a physical fling.....but that's about it.
This girl.....she's amazing, she's smart, and she's beautiful. And, she's probably out of my league.
Oh well. =/
Vampyr
02-02-2005, 06:17 PM
Get her to sign up, Canya!
I've heard guys say before that they like girls not to wear make-up. While I can't completely understand the concept (painting your face? A little barbaric.), it DOES make them look pretty. :\
I like it when girls where just enough make up to cover up the imperfections in their skin. What I don't like is when they wear so much that it makes their face look fuzzy. That's really wierd, and I'm usually too busy staring at the fuzzyness of their face to talk to them.
Better than staring at their breast, though.
ulala06
02-02-2005, 06:27 PM
you don't like fuzzy-faced, one-breasted girls zatchyboy?
lol.
Su-Yin
02-02-2005, 08:09 PM
/me chants we waNt canya's Girl! canYA's GIRL! :p
Get her to sign up, Canya!
I've heard guys say before that they like girls not to wear make-up. While I can't completely understand the concept (painting your face? A little barbaric.), it DOES make them look pretty. :\
I like it when girls where just enough make up to cover up the imperfections in their skin. What I don't like is when they wear so much that it makes their face look fuzzy. That's really wierd, and I'm usually too busy staring at the fuzzyness of their face to talk to them.
Better than staring at their breast, though.
I remember a teacher I had back in high school... She had so much make up on her face, it was a different colour when compared to the back of her hands.
My friends and I used to wonder what will happen if it rains and she doesn't have an umbrella... >.<
As for myself, I've got tonnes of make up that I hardly use. I'd rather sleep for another 15 minutes than to do all the shebang. Plus, the lack of sleep kinda makes you stab yourself in the eye with the mascara wand...
KillerGremlin
02-02-2005, 10:21 PM
you don't like fuzzy-faced, one-breasted girls zatchyboy?
lol.
I do. I call them uniboobsofjoy.
I hate fake tans too....so unappealing.
TheSlyMoogle
02-02-2005, 10:39 PM
hmmm... throats... like their neck not the inside... :D
and uhmmm... wow i really like guys' throats.
god i'm weird.
I could be worse.
;)
Perfect Stu
02-02-2005, 11:02 PM
I tend to like girls that are out of my league.
I must learn to love the unattractive girls with bad personalities...
TheSlyMoogle
02-02-2005, 11:10 PM
I tend to like girls that are out of my league.
I must learn to love the unattractive girls with bad personalities...
There are plenty of girls out there who are unattractive who have great personality traits. Shoot for something a little higher at least. Lol.
Perfect Stu
02-03-2005, 12:06 AM
There are plenty of girls out there who are unattractive who have great personality traits.
sadly, I'm well aware of that
those girls are out of my league too
I'm a decent looking guy...if you like that tall dark haried bulky jock look...but I'm an asshole
Typhoid
02-03-2005, 12:07 AM
sadly, I'm well aware of that
those girls are out of my league too
Your lack of confidence amuses me.
Dance Monkey!
DANCE!
Perfect Stu
02-03-2005, 12:13 AM
Your lack of confidence amuses me
lack of confidence has nothing to do with it. I'm a cocky bastard, and I have a lot of pride. Anything to do with competition, especially in athletics, I'll whoop your ass and make you feel bad about it. For example, there was this trash-talking 25 year old punk who I was playing football with the other day...he guarunteed that he could cover me and take me down with ease. Not only did I get wide open to catch the pass, I made sure to drive him into the ground on my way to the endzone. On my way back to kickoff, I flipped the ball at him and laughed. Needless to say, he was pissed off, and I enjoyed it.
I'm ambitious and never doubt my abilities to do things better than the person next to me. But when a girl is out of my league, a girl is out of my league.
lack of confidence has nothing to do with it. I'm a cocky bastard, and I have a lot of pride. Anything to do with competition, especially in athletics, I'll whoop your ass and make you feel bad about it. For example, there was this trash-talking 25 year old punk who I was playing football with the other day...he guarunteed that he could cover me and take me down with ease. Not only did I get wide open to catch the pass, I made sure to drive him into the ground on my way to the endzone. On my way back to kickoff, I flipped the ball at him and laughed. Needless to say, he was pissed off, and I enjoyed it.
I'm ambitious and never doubt my abilities to do things better than the person next to me. But when a girl is out of my league, a girl is out of my league.
Just as long as you don't treat a girl like you treat your footy mates, I don't see why you can't land a decent girl.
Plus, this was a someone who aggreviated you. Hell, if I were you I'd have done the same thing... I hate people who trash talk. If only I could kick a ball properly though...>.<
Okay, my retardness in sports isn't the issue here.
I reckon all you have to do is to find someone who is compatible with you. There is nothing wrong with being confident and super ambitious. Infact, those are really important attributes (I can't imagine being with a guy who wants nothing out of his life, for example) and if you find the right girl, you two can work on bringing out the best in you.
Typhoid
02-03-2005, 12:43 AM
lack of confidence has nothing to do with it. I'm a cocky bastard, and I have a lot of pride. Anything to do with competition, especially in athletics, I'll whoop your ass and make you feel bad about it. For example, there was this trash-talking 25 year old punk who I was playing football with the other day...he guarunteed that he could cover me and take me down with ease. Not only did I get wide open to catch the pass, I made sure to drive him into the ground on my way to the endzone. On my way back to kickoff, I flipped the ball at him and laughed. Needless to say, he was pissed off, and I enjoyed it.
I'm ambitious and never doubt my abilities to do things better than the person next to me. But when a girl is out of my league, a girl is out of my league.
I meant with girls you ginormous French Shower.
Look it up.
And by the by, I was kidding.
I believe nobody is out of anyones league. Everyone has at least one quality someone else likes. If you get to know someone, everything else doesnt matter.
I'm good friends with some pretty damn hot girls.
Actually, alot of damn hot girls. I've dated damn hot girls.
Am I damn hot? Phf.
So...wait.....you're telling me I need a new monkey?
Good monkeys are so hard to find these days.
Perfect Stu
02-03-2005, 01:26 AM
I meant with girls you ginormous French Shower.
Look it up.
And by the by, I was kidding.
I believe nobody is out of anyones league. Everyone has at least one quality someone else likes. If you get to know someone, everything else doesnt matter.
I'm good friends with some pretty damn hot girls.
Actually, alot of damn hot girls. I've dated damn hot girls.
Am I damn hot? Phf.
So...wait.....you're telling me I need a new monkey?
Good monkeys are so hard to find these days.
You're saying I lack confidence with girls, now?
Gimme a break...I used to be a player...and not one of those losers who the girls seem to like even though the guy treats them with no respect...I was just nice (and "charming") to everyone and I was "the guy" at school. Never liked it, but that's the way it was for a good 3-4 years.
Two of my closest friends are attractive females who adore me (as a friend). I treat females with respect and consideration, but dont butter them up without being honest. The girls that I know cling to my side because they say I provide a level of comfort and security. But when it comes to ROMANCE, I know when a girl is out of my league. If you think that shows lack of confidence, then so be it. I know for a fact that if I meet a very attractive young lady with a booming personality, there is no way I'd have a chance with her. There's just not enough to me...that's not how I view myself, that's just how I am.
There are tons of guys easier on the eyes and have better personalities than myself...the girls know that just as much as I do, and I'm fine with that. Lack of confidence? Nope. Firm grasp of reality? Yep.
Typhoid
02-03-2005, 03:57 AM
You're saying I lack confidence with girls, now?
Gimme a break...I used to be a player...and not one of those losers who the girls seem to like even though the guy treats them with no respect...I was just nice (and "charming") to everyone and I was "the guy" at school. Never liked it, but that's the way it was for a good 3-4 years.
Two of my closest friends are attractive females who adore me (as a friend). I treat females with respect and consideration, but dont butter them up without being honest. The girls that I know cling to my side because they say I provide a level of comfort and security. But when it comes to ROMANCE, I know when a girl is out of my league. If you think that shows lack of confidence, then so be it. I know for a fact that if I meet a very attractive young lady with a booming personality, there is no way I'd have a chance with her. There's just not enough to me...that's not how I view myself, that's just how I am.
There are tons of guys easier on the eyes and have better personalities than myself...the girls know that just as much as I do, and I'm fine with that. Lack of confidence? Nope. Firm grasp of reality? Yep.
Im sorry, did you miss the like...what was it? Third line?
I was kidding.
Nothing I have said in this thread was serious.
Except the me and hot girls thing.
I didnt mean anything I said to you, 'Twas all in good fun.
And Jonbo, thanks for the shiny red pip, I shall wear it proudly. :)
EDIT:
Wait...where Did I say you lack confidence with girls?
Blackmane
02-03-2005, 09:56 AM
Typhoid, you just have to accept that no matter what you say, people take offense to you. :D
Su-Yin
02-03-2005, 10:46 AM
i honestly think relationships are based on compatibility...not leagues...its not a sport...people arent classified in leagues :unsure:
if an awesome girl with the whole package of looks, personality and brains fell in love with the ugliest most obnoxious guy in the world; so let her be if shes in love and she feels good being wiht him...if she feels she loves him but he embarasses her when theyre a couple...i dont think she has much of a personality then does she?....*shrug*...people these days are so superficial...
Perfect Stu
02-03-2005, 10:57 AM
i honestly think relationships are based on compatibility...not leagues...its not a sport...people arent classified in leagues :unsure:
and for the compatibility to be there with an attractive female, a guy almost always has to be at least DECENT looking.
I wish I could say otherwise...lots of pretty girls will say "oh no it has nothing to do with looks" but the only guys you'll see them with are at least pretty good looking. Coincidence? No.
but I dont feel sorry for myself or any of that garbage...
Jonbo298
02-03-2005, 11:41 AM
And Jonbo, thanks for the shiny red pip, I shall wear it proudly. :)
Good because I don't say publicly when I get -rep
Su-Yin
02-03-2005, 11:55 AM
and for the compatibility to be there with an attractive female, a guy almost always has to be at least DECENT looking.
I wish I could say otherwise...lots of pretty girls will say "oh no it has nothing to do with looks" but the only guys you'll see them with are at least pretty good looking. Coincidence? No.
but I dont feel sorry for myself or any of that garbage...
well...i wouldnt say all good looking girls have the whole package...lol...most of them are jsut shallow..they say things to make themselves look a lil less superficial than waht they really are *shrug* ....ull find one..rare...but theyre out there...
Blackmane
02-03-2005, 01:14 PM
Frankly, this thread has gone away from things that turn you on.
Back to the topic on hand.
Ok, so where does everyone like to be touched?
Su-Yin
02-03-2005, 01:17 PM
*blush*....so many many places.....:p
.......unmentionable...lol....
ulala06
02-03-2005, 03:38 PM
Frankly, this thread has gone away from things that turn you on.
Back to the topic on hand.
Ok, so where does everyone like to be touched?
hmmm...
anywhere but my back... i don't know... i guess that means i don't trust people? i don't mind the back of my neck though.
bobcat
02-03-2005, 03:58 PM
What turns me on?
To be honest probably a guys eyes. I like the dark mediterranean look, even though I'm going out with an Australian.
Also their personality. If they are kind and funny, that scores instant appeal for me. I think personality is the most important for me.
Vampyr
02-03-2005, 05:06 PM
and for the compatibility to be there with an attractive female, a guy almost always has to be at least DECENT looking.
I wish I could say otherwise...lots of pretty girls will say "oh no it has nothing to do with looks" but the only guys you'll see them with are at least pretty good looking. Coincidence? No.
but I dont feel sorry for myself or any of that garbage...
That's exactly what I was saying earlier. Looks always matter, at least on some level. They are more important to some people than others, but they still ALWAYS matter.
And I like to be touched anywhere, really. ;) I do like girls to play with my hair, because it feels great and is very relaxing, but I only like it when it's done later in the day and I'm not going to be in public for much longer, if any at all. I hate to have my hair messed up. It ticks me off when someone messes it up, and I don't care how pretty they are.
I like touching hands, too. Not just holding, but touching. I love it when a girl has pretty hands.
Blackmane
02-03-2005, 06:01 PM
I like my hair and head to be rubbed. I also love back massages. So nice!
But of course, I am not picky with where I am touched.
GameMaster
02-03-2005, 06:06 PM
I like to have my inner thighs rubbed and stroked with someone else's sensual legs.
DimHalo
02-03-2005, 06:08 PM
I like to be touched on the back and on my knee/thigh. Those are the mentionable places.
dropCGCF
02-03-2005, 08:17 PM
I enjoy it when my woman nibbles on my ear.
A lot of unpublishable things... but mainly I just like being held :D
TheSlyMoogle
02-03-2005, 10:43 PM
I like to be completely entwined with someone, holding eachother.
I like it when a certain someone kissed my nose. It made me feel awkward at first, but then it made me feel special. Apparently I have a cute nose.
I like someone to play with my hair, and to sort of trace their fingers all over my upper body. That's mentionable, right?
I like to fall asleep in my lover's arms, and them in mine. Doing things like that seem so poetic and beautiful, but at the same time so cliche.
I guess that's why it became cliche though, because it feels so good people just had to write sappy poems and stories about it.
:D
I like to be completely entwined with someone, holding eachother.
I like it when a certain someone kissed my nose. It made me feel awkward at first, but then it made me feel special. Apparently I have a cute nose.
I like someone to play with my hair, and to sort of trace their fingers all over my upper body. That's mentionable, right?
I like to fall asleep in my lover's arms, and them in mine. Doing things like that seem so poetic and beautiful, but at the same time so cliche.
I guess that's why it became cliche though, because it feels so good people just had to write sappy poems and stories about it.
:D
You just described what I wanted to say in my previous post (but obviously I failed miserably...) :D
dropCGCF
02-04-2005, 01:36 AM
I notice most women like their neck kissed.
TheSlyMoogle
02-04-2005, 02:15 AM
You just described what I wanted to say in my previous post (but obviously I failed miserably...) :D
Haha well now that I know what it's like with someone really special to me, I have to describe it to everyone. Really about 1 and a half months ago I couldn't have said things like this at all.
Luckily I found someone special.
Stray_Bullet
02-04-2005, 01:51 PM
Ah yes... falling asleep is good.
Hot-tubbing, also good.
ulala06
02-06-2005, 04:41 PM
I like it when a certain someone kissed my nose. It made me feel awkward at first, but then it made me feel special. Apparently I have a cute nose.
awww... Teh R. :D
In my first post here I mentioned that what "turns me on" is when someone comes along that I never would have expected. Someone with a personality that I would not normally look into. Last night I went to my school's dance, Old School Dance Party, and you could dress as any era. I went with my ex-girlfriend, because we're still really close friends, but we only broke up because I'll be off to college next year and we don't want it to stress us out, but I won't get into that. Anyway, I have a picture of what we were dressed up as; it was pretty snazzy. I made it black and white because it looks better that way.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v348/SilentHawk29/Alyssa%20and%20me/AlyssaandSteveDanceBlackandWhite.jpg
I had a fun time. She seems to bring out that other, spontaneous side, in me...because normally I wouldn't have done this.
I didn't know where to put this picture, so I just tied it into what I said earlier.
Don't kill me but you look a little like Nick Carter...
Great picture though. Love the styling.
DimHalo
02-07-2005, 12:00 AM
So, lights on or lights off?
I won't agree with the Nick Carter comment... I don't find him to be very attractive. But fun threads!
So, lights on or lights off?
General question or.....?
I won't agree with the Nick Carter comment... I don't find him to be very attractive. But fun threads!
Don't like Nick Carter either... but a fast glimpse at ZebraRampage's pic reminds me of him... especially because in one video he was dressed up exactly the same way.
/me is a recovering teenybopper.
GameMaster
02-07-2005, 12:57 AM
I prefer the lights off. Being able to watch what you're pleasuring is nice, but since vision is my primary sense, I prefer to treat the other senses. So with the lights down low, you're vision turns off and the other senses sharpen. Aside from treating these other senses, I think they have more to offer when it comes to mating. Listening to the moaning, smelling sacred areas, exploring the texture of a body with your hands and fingers, and tasting every surface is much more satisfying than just looking at it all.
dropCGCF
02-07-2005, 01:01 AM
I prefer the lights off. Being able to watch what you're pleasuring is nice, but since vision is my primary sense, I prefer to treat the other senses. So with the lights down low, you're vision turns off and the other senses sharpen. Aside from treating these other senses, I think they have more to offer when it comes to mating. Listening to the moaning, smelling sacred areas, exploring the texture of a body with your hands and fingers, and tasting every surface is much more satisfying than just looking at it all.
Virgin.
Virgin.
It doesn't necessarily have to be sex related, actually... It is, in GM's context but there are many other things that can be done with the lights on or off.
Say, tickle the hell out of each other. :D
Blackmane
02-07-2005, 11:20 AM
I'm a lights off kind of guy.
Vampyr
02-07-2005, 11:38 AM
Lights kind of dim.
Not too dark though, more on the light side than dark side....and I'm not talking about Star Wars.
I like to see everything.
DimHalo
02-07-2005, 11:48 AM
I prefer lights off/down low most of the time because I'm a darkness kind of person. But on occasion lights on can be fun.
dropCGCF
02-07-2005, 12:46 PM
I was with a girl who only did stuff with the lights off because she was ashamed of her body.
Now I'm not with her, so I like my lights very luminous.
Stray_Bullet
02-07-2005, 01:16 PM
Too much light hurts the eyes at a time when senses are high. Maybe... an "ineffective" light source, like a candle or TV on static (muted). Something that would light up your area, rather than the whole room, would be nice.
Darkness isn't very exciting. You could just as well close your eyes with the lights on.
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