Girlfriends Madddddd.....

[GameMaster]

You should lie to her and tell her the whole event was just a setup to test her loyalty.

Or you could get mad at her for looking in your e-mail and lie again by saying you sent the girl your picture becuase she was going to design a birthday card for you and that you and the girl were planning a birthday party for her. And then yell at her for wrecking the surprise. Make her feel guilty, lower her self esteem, and make perform favors for redemption. She needs to feel bad about herself. Tell her that her looking at your e-mail was a sign of not trusting you and that your greatly hurt by it. As long as she has little or no self-confidence, you'll be in good shape.

[fingersman]

Originally Posted by GameMaster

You should lie to her and tell her the whole event was just a setup to test her loyalty.

Or you could get mad at her for looking in your e-mail and lie again by saying you sent the girl your picture becuase she was going to design a birthday card for you and that you and the girl were planning a birthday party for her. And then yell at her for wrecking the surprise. Make her feel guilty, lower her self esteem, and make perform favors for redemption. She needs to feel bad about herself. Tell her that her looking at your e-mail was a sign of not trusting you and that your greatly hurt by it. As long as she has little or no self-confidence, you'll be in good shape.

Ok please ignore the above quote

[Ace195]

Done and Done, Game she already has low self esteem I'm trying to boost it. I would rather have a girl that makes decisions and gets mad at me then a person who just goes along and complies, because that takes all the fun out of life..

[Jewels]

Originally Posted by Jonbo298

You let her check your emails? Thats real safe. But ummm...if she won't believe that allegedly nothing further was going to happen between you and this "person", then I really doubt it's gonna survive. Try reversing the situation and think what you would do if you were looking at her emails and noticed she sent an email to another man on the 'net.

i do agree with jonbo on this one, persay if i found an email stating that he sent a picture to another girl on the internet, first i would be pissed and frantic, maybe smack him a few... then eventually calm down and talk about it, like ask dont you have feelings for me anymore? do you want to be with this person more than me? or what the hell are you doing you jackass? things like that, i never have to worry about that my boyfriend he doesnt really chat with people, just friends mainly, and i know all his friends, i have nothing to worry about, were both open on the matter of disscussing anything, but ACE i gotta agree with your gf on this, what were ya thinking? do you want to be with this person instead of the one your with now? ask yourself some questions? your gf has pretty much every right to be upset with you....

[Canyarion]

Sharing your e-mail box with her shows your honesty, doesn't it? She doesn't really understand it, when she finds a 'suspicious' mail, and you explain it, she shouldn't worry. You're not doing anything behind her back, right?

Your girl has issues.

[DimHalo]

i was asked to give my opinion in this thread so here goes:
First, if she knows your password that is fine... i know my friends/boyfriend's passwords.
Second, although she should not be checking up on you (eventhough she knows your password she should respect your privacy)
However, since she did find something out you should be open and direct with her... she may have a hard time accepting that sending the picture is innocent
...This is because girls are timid and fearful in nature. Especially if she has low self esteem (which you said she does). Her first instinct will be to get defensive.
You probably shouldn't be sending pictures over the internet...just causes lots of problems. Living in a virtual world creates issues that become too complex to even dive into. I'm not saying that is what you are doing by sending your picture to someone. However, it can escalate.
Finally, if you don't have any interest in the girl you sent the picture to, why not send a picture of you and your girlfriend? Are you not proud to be with her? Or do you want to hide the fact that you are with someone? I don't know the whole story so all that could be entirely wrong. But, these are things that a girl will think about when finding out something like that. I may have more to add later, but that's all i've got to say right now.

PS: talking it out is the best thing to do