Requesting relationship help? - Page 2

Perfect Stu · 03-21-2007, 01:42 AM

the best way to get someone to talk is to ask them questions. once you get their opinion on something, ANYTHING, it's easy to make something out of it. you could make fun of it playfully, agree or disagree with it and explain why...basically spark some sort of conversation. if she never talks much (and some people never talk much) then you probably won't find a way to get her all chatty, just enjoy whatever it is she does or find a way out.

KillerGremlin · 03-21-2007, 02:00 AM

if all else fails, masturbate

MrCoffee · 03-21-2007, 02:38 AM

okay heres an update;
Today my buddy and his girl, and myself and Kaleigh, we played a round or two of soulcaliber, then i remarked on how I wanted some fresh air so we jumped in my buddies car and drove to a park and walked threw some trails, she was scared ****less because it was dark and there were coyotes howling, but i got her to talk about how scared she was and what could happen. I think i am getting closer. Bowling sounds like a great idea, I shall try that one too, im having trouble thinking about stuff to do for dates because movies are so anti-social...

i also notice that many of my friends have immense trouble showing emotion and being confident in person. I personally am totally fine because I tend to stay away from that kind of issue...

@dyne
yeah so uhh....silence is something that is not awkward anymore, because well uhh when were alone and in the mood, if i talk most likely to make a bad joke she hits me :P

okay guys im going to keep you updated on how its going i am a bit of a newb with relationships...:$

Angrist · 03-21-2007, 05:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Dyne

Out-silence her!

I like that. Keep your mouth shut for so long that she'll ask you what's the matter. Then you're in some big trouble because you have to explain, but at least you're talking.

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Originally Posted by KillerGremlin

"where do you stand on global politics?"

"Don't Know". Two words, I win.

I was going to advise to do something else than gaming, but it looks like you did that last night.

Good job.

Joeiss · 03-21-2007, 11:58 AM

You've been dating for a month? Are you getting any action? If not, I doubt you guys are dating... How old are you?

A month of friendship usually burns the bridge for a relationship.. gotta get in there the first week or 2 man.

Angrist · 03-21-2007, 12:50 PM

If with "get in there" you mean sex, I beg to differ.

MrCoffee · 03-21-2007, 02:11 PM

First of all I'm 16, almost 17, when you say getting in there, sex no but, I'm good pretty much everywhere else.

edit: i dno ive know her for along time, we were friends for almost a year, and then about two months ago we started flirting more and more and now were dating, but lately shes been really quiet, not as responsive.

It could be a better thing to just stay friends...maybe? I hope not.

Typhoid · 03-21-2007, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Angrist

If with "get in there" you mean sex, I beg to differ.

He means plant the possibility of something more than just a friendship.
If you dont establish anything right off the bat, you'll be just friends, unless it's "special" or something.

Perfect Stu · 03-21-2007, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by MrCoffee

It could be a better thing to just stay friends...maybe? I hope not.

talk to her about it, dude...none of us can really answer that question.

Angrist · 03-21-2007, 04:58 PM

Ah, like in Friends season one where Ross is becoming friends with Rachel and Chandler says it's almost too late to start a relationship wit her?

Comprendo.

Btw if anyone is interested, I got a new girlfriend. Which is a pretty big step after I thought I couldn't live without my ex.

MrCoffee · 03-21-2007, 07:38 PM

Angrist, I dno you but Im interested. How did you get over your ex?

Dylflon · 03-21-2007, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by MrCoffee

okay so i left out a valid piece of information, she talks fine over chat, and text messages...I try not to whip it out, Im pretty sure Dylan set himself back aways with that.

Who are you talknig about? What Dylan?

Dylflon · 03-21-2007, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by MrCoffee

Angrist, I dno you but Im interested. How did you get over your ex?

Don't do that. You will type don't know like a decent human being. Or at least "dunno".

But dno? Come on, man.

MrCoffee · 03-21-2007, 09:23 PM

apparently you whipped it out, i was commenting on how that probably set you back aways.

Joeiss · 03-21-2007, 09:59 PM

Well as long as your getting your dick wet then you are definitely dating her! hahaha.

Just hang in there man, persistence is key. And if you make her laugh, make her laugh even louder. Whatever the reason is that she likes you, ****ing bring your A game out pronto if you think its dying down.