Let's talk about girls!

[The Germanator]

Originally Posted by Angrist

Hm you could definitely meet her again. Distance relationships are hard, but you can always decide what to do later. Maybe you'll discover after 1 more 'date' that she's not worth it. Or maybe it will be the start of something good.

Yeah those twins... We'll see how it goes. I wonder when I'll see her/them again.

Yeah, I kinda plan to. Another thing is that she's friends with my cousin who she plans on visiting in Delaware sometime soon. Though she also specifically mentioned seeing me during that visit as well. The way my luck goes that will be the same weekend I was planning to go up to Brooklyn. Anyway, yeah, I'm kind of just waiting to see how our next encounter goes and we'll take it from there. I understand that the odds are generally against it making sense.

[Typhoid]

Why not just ask her to hang out?
Is it really so beyond logic to go to the city to just see and hang out with her, without needing another reason to be there?
Am I the only one who doesn't find that weird?

[Angrist]

Hm well it depends on your personality. I also think it wouldn't be weird, but when I was Germy, I probably would be too afraid to ask it that way. It would be out of character for me.
But that's me always afraid of taking things too fast...

[The Germanator]

Yeah, you're completely right, Typhoid. I generally over think these kind of things, and as Angrist said, it just not necessarily how my brain works with this situation. My brain goes to "oh, she'll be weirded out, we barely know each other", that kind of thing. Again, I admit that it's dumb, but it's hard to rewire the brain to think differently.