Relationships: Please read

[Wilson]

I would like to hear your thoughts on relationships between two would be "lovers" for lack of a better word. Have any of you ever been in long term relationships? Meaning more than a year. Ones that had just gone sour? If so, what was it that ended it for you? Did he/she cheat on you? Did you cheat on them? Was it something you found out about them that just turned you off, or vice versa? Did you virgins ever get to the point when you thought "this is the time"? You know what I'm referring to so don't be coy.

Before my wife, there was this one girl (long term) who I thought I could easily be with the rest of my life. Well, obviously things didn't work out that way. We were practically doing everything with each other, other than actual intercourse, and when we were reaching that horizon, I noticed a change in the look in her eyes. Something that bothered me... a loss of interest perhaps? I don't know, but I was really insecure about it, and one day we just stopped talking, phoning, going out, everything. Like someone had just poured a bucket of cold water on me. It was weird, and I haven't spoken to her since. Man, that's ********up isn't it? I never really noticed it until now... hmmm.