Alucard's topic - Sex before you're ready?

[Revival]

quite mike's post:

Sex outside of marriage is what it's wrong in any ways you put it. You might not accept it but it is. If it wasn't nobody talked about it.

The biggest problem with what most people think is this LOVE = Good Sex
Which is the dumbest thing ever. It makes unwanted pregnancies, teenage suicides, teenage parents, dropouts, misserable lives, divorce, lust, broken families, shildren without both parents and many other things. All come from believing that Love means good sex.

What happens when the person is not able to provide good sex? Is the love gone?

Really?? Then why the hell is it such an honor to be a virgin on the wedding day? Why did they invented marriages since the metal age?

Love comes before zex and lasts long after it. If it's not true for you then I'm sorry for your whife.

I am a virgin at 22 and am damn proud of it. I am proud that I managed to keep myself from destroying my future marriage. I don't know who I'll marry as of now, but be sure she'll be a virgin too. That's the best and only thing a husband can give to his whife and a whife can give to his husband. Anything else (money, house, car) any posetion can be given, taken or somehow become the possetion of someone else.

We are born naked and we die naked, and as such only our virginity is ours with our body. This is THE thing that we decide when we give up and to whoom. That's why I consider Rape to be a more horrifying crime then even murder, since it takes away something that can never be returned even if the Rapist goes straight to police.

You say sex after marriage is a complete joke? Why? Cuz you weren't as strong as us to wait. So now that you crossed the line to the other side try to put the blame on us that are still waiting? If that's not your intent be sure that it is the intent of millions of teenagers in the High Schools of the world, which now by peer presure have sex and then try to blame not their peers that make them go into it, but the peers that are waiting and stay clean. It's working great here in US and probably everywhere but not with me. I'll always be proud of holding back, and I'll always know that I am right in being so, no matter what others may say or laugh. Theur laugh stays only for minutes. My virginity has been for over 22 years and I'm not going to give it up just to stop a laugh.


P.S. I haven't said anything about what the Bible says, but you wouldn't care