Could you... - Page 2

Su-Yin · 01-06-2005, 02:00 PM

i really dont know....ive always liked looking at girls more than guys.....but happydude makes me feel real good.....i could assume im perfectly straight...but i feel at the end of the day...wahts important is the person and not the gender...*shrug*.....i dont think i would completely dismiss the idea of 'girlfriend'....but id rather stay in a happy straight twosome with happydude....

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*personal msg for happydude: hun...no ideas....answer is no

Happydude · 01-06-2005, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Happydudette

i really dont know....ive always liked looking at girls more than guys.....but happydude makes me feel real good.....i could assume im perfectly straight...but i feel at the end of the day...wahts important is the person and not the gender...*shrug*.....i dont think i would completely dismiss the idea of 'girlfriend'....but id rather stay in a happy straight twosome with happydude....

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*personal msg for happydude: hun...no ideas....answer is no

BLAST!

KillerGremlin · 01-06-2005, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Yan

I'm not ruling anything out though

. People change.

I don't think so. I'm willing to argue that you are born with your sexuality, and if not, I would say most people are only pliable for the first year or two of their life. Sexuality has yet to be linked to genetics, but I sort of think we might find a connection, eventually.

A lot of gay people don't come out with the fact that they are gay because they live in a society that frowns upon homosexuality, or maybe their parents do not support their choice. I think people know what their sexuality is, and they don't change - I do think that the environment around them affects their sexual choices and preferences, for a time, but not ultimately.

Swan · 01-07-2005, 12:24 AM

This reminds me of a question I was asked awhile ago, a girl I know asked me if I was bi. I said no, but unsurely. Anyways...

I do believe people change, I used to be scared of ever doing stuff that would be even considered homoerotic. But now, I've matured, and am secure with my sexuality. I'm not afraid to act like it. Just ask Typhoid, we've had to times together...no, not like that.

KillerGremlin · 01-07-2005, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by deejzguy

This reminds me of a question I was asked awhile ago, a girl I know asked me if I was bi. I said no, but unsurely. Anyways...

I do believe people change, I used to be scared of ever doing stuff that would be even considered homoerotic. But now, I've matured, and am secure with my sexuality. I'm not afraid to act like it. Just ask Typhoid, we've had to times together...no, not like that.

Right, you were scared. You knew your sexuality all along, it was in you, you just had not yet found it, or let it take command of your life. I have no doubt in my mind that people repress, hold back and even deny their sexuality, but I believe that people are a certain sexuality and they cannot change it.

Environments can affect your sexual choices, but I still do not believe they can change your sexuality.

DeathsHand · 01-09-2005, 03:47 AM

I could never see myself having sex (or anything like it) with another guy...

However I can see myself hugging, cuddling with, and lap-sitting (lap-sitting? o.O), along with saying various suggestive things, to another male, because that's what I do with my best friend...

And although it is in a half-joking way, if anybody else (male or female) tried to get that close to me I'd get nervous and move very suddenly in the direction opposite of them...

But for some reason a switch in my head made it ok for him to be inside my personal bubble... Because I'm comfortable enough with him doing so, and comfortable enough to act like that in front of other people...

Not sure if that necesarily has to do with love (although love is whatever we make it out to be)... But it's somewhat the same idea...

Swan · 01-09-2005, 04:59 AM

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Originally Posted by DeathsHand

I could never see myself having sex (or anything like it) with another guy...

However I can see myself hugging, cuddling with, and lap-sitting (lap-sitting? o.O), along with saying various suggestive things, to another male, because that's what I do with my best friend...

And although it is in a half-joking way, if anybody else (male or female) tried to get that close to me I'd get nervous and move very suddenly in the direction opposite of them...

But for some reason a switch in my head made it ok for him to be inside my personal bubble... Because I'm comfortable enough with him doing so, and comfortable enough to act like that in front of other people...

Not sure if that necesarily has to do with love (although love is whatever we make it out to be)... But it's somewhat the same idea...

Lap dancing?

Me and Typoid hadn't known each other long, but we we're semicomfortable. Well, technically, he wasn't he got scared. Making me the winner!

I bit Fox 6 once.

DeathsHand · 01-09-2005, 05:16 AM

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Originally Posted by deejzguy

Lap dancing?

Me and Typoid hadn't known each other long, but we we're semicomfortable. Well, technically, he wasn't he got scared. Making me the winner!

I bit Fox 6 once.

No, I meant sitting on each other's laps...

IT'S FUN!

People say we look cute...

I am bleeding, making me the victor...

Perfect Stu · 01-09-2005, 10:02 AM

love in a romantic sense? no...guys disgust me. I disgust me, and I'm a confident person

I think females are crazier than males, more irrational, and often blow things out of proportion. But I love 'em

KillerGremlin · 01-09-2005, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Perfect Stu

love in a romantic sense? no...guys disgust me. I disgust me, and I'm a confident person

I think females are crazier than males, more irrational, and often blow things out of proportion. But I love 'em

Or at least parts of them.