Flamin' Females.

TheGrimReaper · 02-03-2003, 05:10 AM

Darn it! Why does the one girl I happen to be attracted to very much have to be one of my good friends? Why dammit why!? And why do I have to feel like such an idiot, and why wouldn't she ever feel the same way, and why is it so stupid! ARRGHH!!

Sorry, I know the world has bigger problems, but I needed somewhere to vent.

Ice006 · 02-03-2003, 09:09 AM

So you've told her you like her, and she said she likes you only as a friend? That's all I can gather thus far...?

TheGame · 02-03-2003, 11:55 AM

lol, just wait it out... if you are good enough friends she will come around. Well, after she has been with 12 other guys, but eh, love is stronger than that... right?

Happydude · 02-03-2003, 01:41 PM

lol...good one Rick...as for being "freinds" with a girl you like, if you told her you like her, and you stay freinds with her, she will come around sooner or later...

DimHalo · 02-03-2003, 03:57 PM

i agree with happy. if you two are good enough friends she'll probably come around...u just gotta wait. if she gets all weird with you, then she might be reconsidering the friendship

TheGrimReaper · 02-03-2003, 04:03 PM

Nah, we're good friends, but all of a sudden I started wanting to be around her all the time. Thus the problem.

Happydude · 02-03-2003, 05:46 PM

lol...tell her that you like her and ask her out on a date...see what she sais...JP's Slave could probably tell you what all the answers that she would give you could mean...i think

Yoda9864 · 02-04-2003, 12:02 AM

You know what, if you two do get together, you will eventually break up (unless you get married, but very doubtful). And when you break up, you will have ruined your friendship forever. Things will never be hte same between you two. I should know, it happened to me. That was the dumbest mistake I ever made.

So I say, don't try to pursue a romantic relationship, it will just ruin your current friendship with her.

Kitana85 · 02-04-2003, 08:58 AM

Well, you have it a bit better than me, I think.
I had a crush on my best friend's boyfriend, for ages. He broke up with her, but they are still best friends. I later told her that I thought he was hot, butshe said "hands off." I was like, "fine." So, then, he asks me out. I'm like OH MY GOD. But then my best friend gets huffy before I could even do anything about it. She told me she would be really hurt if I went out with him b/c she still has feelings toward him. I told him no b/c I don't want to lose her as a friend, and It old him that too, but DAMN IT!

fingersman · 02-04-2003, 09:57 AM

Ouch that sucks Kitana, but you have to admit it might feel odd going out with him, when he's your best friends' ex boyfriend.

Just leave him alone and forget about him.

surfin4lifer · 02-04-2003, 12:30 PM

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Originally posted by TheGrimReaper
Darn it! Why does the one girl I happen to be attracted to very much have to be one of my good friends? Why dammit why!? And why do I have to feel like such an idiot, and why wouldn't she ever feel the same way, and why is it so stupid! ARRGHH!!

Sorry, I know the world has bigger problems, but I needed somewhere to vent.

My friend there is only one solution to this. Stay friends but attemt to get her to be a little bit more friendly. and before you know it you have a Fuct buddy. No girlfriend problems, all you do it hang out regularly as friends nad when one of you gets a bit randy (no i'm not english just thought the word was funny) you give the ole' digits a call.

TheGame · 02-04-2003, 01:00 PM

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Originally posted by surfin4lifer
My friend there is only one solution to this. Stay friends but attemt to get her to be a little bit more friendly. and before you know it you have a Fuct buddy. No girlfriend problems, all you do it hang out regularly as friends nad when one of you gets a bit randy (no i'm not english just thought the word was funny) you give the ole' digits a call.

lmao... if it's his friend that ain't gonna work.

I used to do it with my GF, but that's because we had no interest in each-other outside the bedroom. Hell, we couldn't even hang out without feeling akward... so we just became mutual booty calls and ended the "girlfriend/boyfriend" act. We were doin it (all night) for about 6 months, then she got another man and that was the end of that.

surfin4lifer · 02-04-2003, 01:21 PM

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Originally posted by TheGame
lmao... if it's his friend that ain't gonna work.

I used to do it with my GF, but that's because we had no interest in each-other outside the bedroom. Hell, we couldn't even hang out without feeling akward... so we just became mutual booty calls and ended the "girlfriend/boyfriend" act. We were doin it (all night) for about 6 months, then she got another man and that was the end of that.

you'd be amazed how easy it is to get a friend into bed. Girls love a guy they can feel comfortable around and have sex w/ at the same time. try it out my friend try it out. the only hard part is convincing them it won't ruin your friendship.

Perfect Stu · 02-04-2003, 02:35 PM

sex but no relationship?

talk about meaningless...it's like free prostitution

jeepnut · 02-05-2003, 01:04 AM

agreed stu.