How long?

Andromida_ · 07-03-2002, 09:01 PM

How long can you hold a grudge against someone?

For me it's until they know when to apologize or ask if we can still be friends again (if they deserve that much). Or when ever I realize what I did if I had done anything wrong.

I'd just like to know, I'm really mad at one of my friends right now, I kinda just wanted to know if I'm just "normal" for holding a long time grudge or if I'm just kinda a easily POed person

BlueFire · 07-03-2002, 09:13 PM

I've held one for 2 years...

gekko · 07-03-2002, 09:55 PM

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Originally posted by Andromida_
How long can you hold a grudge against someone?

As long as I damn well please. I usually don't hold a "grudge." But like... I'll hate that Shooter fool until the day he dies, but I wouldn't call it holding a grudge. Not like he did anything to deserve it... but live and act normal (ignorant).

EDIT: BTW, I could've sworn this thread would've been about something else...

Jonbo298 · 07-03-2002, 10:18 PM

I had a grudge against a friend of mine from the beginning of the school year until about Nov. or so(it was too long, but meh). I found out that the "gf" I had over the summer was actually his gf playing a trick on me. and I found out from another source that he was in on it. But eventually, I got over it. But not the woman who did it. I still hate her to this day(the bi*ch!). I also still have a grudge against my brother for stealing my fireworks one year ago!:eek:

Mushlafa · 07-03-2002, 10:33 PM

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Originally posted by gekko

EDIT: BTW, I could've sworn this thread would've been about something else...

Yeah gekko me too... but i didnt wanna post it

in fear of you people thinking i was a weirdo

uhhh.... yeah.. nm

I dont hold a grudge.. well at least i think

Joeiss · 07-03-2002, 10:43 PM

Kind of, kind of not.

With close friends, I never get into any "drama" with them. If they do something stupid against me, I either beat them up (if they are a guy), make them apologize (usually when I am about to choke them out, again, guy only), or I just stop talking to them.

But that is only for people I liked at one point in time. There are these two girls at school that I cannot stand. They think they are perfect and "all that and a bag of popcorn" (is that what that saying is?). I have never liked them, and I think that I will always hold a grudge against them. Oh, and this grudge has lasted about two years.

Perfect Stu · 07-03-2002, 11:59 PM

How long? About 6 and a half inc-

OOOHHHHHHH!!!!

Anyways, I don't hold grudges. I get mad at people, but I don't hold grudges...

Ginkasa · 07-04-2002, 12:07 AM

30 minutes... I think.... I'm forgiving once I get past the initial anger...

GameKinG · 07-04-2002, 12:56 AM

I still have grudges on people from preschool. Damn that Tommy.

The Germanator · 07-04-2002, 01:09 AM

Yeah, Tommy is a dick!

But anyway, I hold a grudge against 90% of the kids in my school. Not for any personal reasons, but mainly because they are annoying people that I can't listen to for more than 10 minutes before they piss me off. That grudge has lasted for 10 years (as long as I have been in the school)

Shadow_Link · 07-04-2002, 07:26 AM

9 years and still going strong against one person that was considered one of my 'best friends'.

fingersman · 07-04-2002, 08:17 AM

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Originally posted by Perfect Stu
How long? About 6 and a half inc-

OOOHHHHHHH!!!!

Anyways, I don't hold grudges. I get mad at people, but I don't hold grudges...

Lol

Well I don't hold grudges anymore, I'm probadly one of the most forgiving persons I know of right now....well besides my two best friends. But I held a grudge for like 2-3 years against one of my X girls. grrrrrrrrrr....but now all is forgiven and we talk and stuff.

Oh yeah Joesis...the saying is " They think that they are all that and a bag of chips" you can add the words " ketchcup and mustard" if u want to.

Andromida_ · 07-04-2002, 11:11 AM

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Originally posted by gekko

EDIT: BTW, I could've sworn this thread would've been about something else...

lol I hadn't even thought about the subject on that one.
just to prove that my mind wasn't really thinking very well or should I say about that topic when I made this post

07-05-2002, 03:35 AM

17 years

Andromida_ · 07-05-2002, 02:52 PM

17 years?

really?