How Far Is Too Far?

Ginkasa · 02-03-2005, 10:10 PM

Okay, so, let's say you're alone with a significant other and you start to do your thing? How far do you, personally, take it? How far do you go before it becomes too far?

Is kissing enough for you? Do you think a little fondling never hurt anyone? Or do you just do all out?

Don't, eh, get too descriptive...

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I, personally, probably wouldn't have a problem with touching. Anything more, though, starts invading into the "immoral and wrong" area.

/me shrugs and walks away

TheSlyMoogle · 02-03-2005, 11:06 PM

Well Honestly I've already been all the way several times.

It wasn't special with the first person I did it with. It was a nice release, but it was just a tiny bit better than going all the way with myself.

Lol, Sorry, but I had to say that to get my point across.

With the second person I did it with it was very special. Different somehow, more intimate. It felt like the first time all over again, except 100x better.

Anyway, I think that it's ok to go all the way on the first date if you want, it just depends on how you and your significant other feels about those kinds of things.

GameMaster · 02-03-2005, 11:36 PM

I've never had a real opportunity to test this question but whenever I'm getting off at the thought of a scenario like this, it always leads to 'going all the way'. I never regret it after we're finished. It feels great and we both enjoy it. And safety is always taken so no one has to worry about unexpected surprises in 9 months. I advise you to talk it over with your partner so that when intimate moments arise, you can start your engines without any delay.

dropCGCF · 02-04-2005, 01:34 AM

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Originally Posted by TheSlyMoogle

Well Honestly I've already been all the way several times.

It wasn't special with the first person I did it with. It was a nice release, but it was just a tiny bit better than going all the way with myself.

Lol, Sorry, but I had to say that to get my point across.

With the second person I did it with it was very special. Different somehow, more intimate. It felt like the first time all over again, except 100x better.

Anyway, I think that it's ok to go all the way on the first date if you want, it just depends on how you and your significant other feels about those kinds of things.

Same exact scenario for me except for the last part. I think that you should be in love with someone before you do the nasty.

Blackmane · 02-04-2005, 02:09 AM

I've gone all the way with my g/f's only after a long time together. I almost never rush into that sort of thing. It is weird.

TheSlyMoogle · 02-04-2005, 02:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Blackmane

I've gone all the way with my g/f's only after a long time together. I almost never rush into that sort of thing. It is weird.

No that's not weird at all, that's just the way you are about that kind of thing. It's very respectable!

Canyarion · 02-04-2005, 02:42 AM

I'm a virgin.

So yeah.... me and my gril touch a bit, but not breasts and stuff... We're waiting for our wedding. Oh isn't that cuuuute!

Blackmane · 02-04-2005, 03:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Canyarion

I'm a virgin.

So yeah.... me and my gril touch a bit, but not breasts and stuff... We're waiting for our wedding. Oh isn't that cuuuute!

Thats nice, but it is really hard to wait. I will have real respect for you if you can wait that long to do anything. It is so tempting. Sooner or later you will break down and have a good time with her. That is just my drunk opinonin though, so don';t worry.

Typhoid · 02-04-2005, 05:44 AM

Theres a time and place for everything.

If you think its time to take it father, do so. If its not, she'll let you know. Just like if she wanted to go farther, and you dont think its appropriate, You would (possibly) stop her.

Vampyr · 02-04-2005, 06:47 AM

I don't have a set limit to stop at.

Just whatever goes through my head.

Canyarion · 02-04-2005, 07:07 AM

Hehe Blackmane, we'll see.

DimHalo · 02-04-2005, 09:49 AM

I am still a virgin and plan on staying that way until I am married. And I am already 22. It isn't that hard to wait.

Ace195 · 02-04-2005, 09:58 AM

I kinda wish I would have waited but then I would have only wondered... I'm happy with where my life went.

Blackmane · 02-04-2005, 11:10 AM

That brings up a good point.

Who wishs they were still a virgin?

I do at times. But then I think about how my life could have been stuck in a rut because of it. (too many details) It is then that I am glad that I didn't wait, but then I always wonder, "What if?"

DimHalo · 02-04-2005, 11:25 AM

I decided when I was in 8th grade that I didn't want to have sex with just anyone, that I wanted to wait until I got married. Then, around my senior year in high school, I had changed my opinion to "well, if I really care for the guy, and he really cares for me... I guess I'll do it" Luckily, no one was in the picture at that time. Then I found my faith and reaffirmed that I wanted to wait. And I am happy for it.