So Pissed....

[Ace195]

Ok. I drove 4 hours to see my girlfriend up in her dorm room. And now I can't even get a "French Kiss" she doesn't seem to want me here even though she begged me to be here.. It's like I don't understand why would you invite me and make me drive 4 hours to just ignore me ? I mean we had a good afternoon and a good evening and what not but then all hell broke loose. And now she left the room because I wanted to put my shirt on ( no bad ideas I was chaning) before she opened the door. I got mad and then she left and still hasn't come back I mean I am right arent ?

[Bond]

Maybe it's because you're going to a foreign land.

[jeepnut]

Originally Posted by Ace195

Ok. I drove 4 hours to see my girlfriend up in her dorm room. And now I can't even get a "French Kiss" she doesn't seem to want me here even though she begged me to be here.. It's like I don't understand why would you invite me and make me drive 4 hours to just ignore me ? I mean we had a good afternoon and a good evening and what not but then all hell broke loose. And now she left the room because I wanted to put my shirt on ( no bad ideas I was chaning) before she opened the door. I got mad and then she left and still hasn't come back I mean I am right arent ?

Somethings definitely up. You're are going to have to investigate. And by that I mean, let her know that you know that something is not right and then ask her to tell you what it is.

[Perfect Stu]

4 hours? damn man...what happened?

"All hell broke loose"
"Put my shirt on before she opened the door"
"I got mad"

[Vampyr]

I recommend bying a brown trench coat, and a smoking pipe.

Then get a large magnifying glass, and snoop around her dorm room.

j/k....

You can either,
A. Say nothing and hope it gets better (not recommended)
B. Talk to her (recommended)
C. Consider the fact that she could be, uh, you know...moodswings...etc. etc. do I have to make myself any more clear? *uncomfortable stare*

[Dylflon]

Perhaps she was distracted by feminine issues?

[GiMpY-wAnNaBe]

its funny you should lmention that, i had a similar problem with my ex...notice, my "EX". Although its a 10 minute walk to her house, the point is she begged me to come over, this was at 8...so already i'm like "wtf?". After that, one little peck on the lips, and then, get this - she slept for four hours, and i had to wait in her room the entire time...playing on addictinggames.com . and then i figured what was actually going on, she WANTED me to break up with her. Girls do this quite often, and i have a friend who's doing it to her bf right now. although i can't guarantee anything, you seem to be in a similar predicament. the best thing is to find out from her friends whats going on, because she just WON"T tell you some things. Although a lot of you probably will critisize me for saying to go to his gf's frinds, you know its true, its the fastest and most efficient way to find out. theres a good chance she wants to break up with you, but simply doesn't want to say it herself. good luck man.

[Vampyr]

If what gimpy says is true, (this is extremely hypothetical), Than I say dont break up with her.

If she's going to do that, just wait and make her miserable until she does it.

Keep in mind that that is VERY hypothetical. hopefully your situation is nothing like this.

[GameMaster]

I hope this little situation is just a misunderstanding and everything is okay again.

[Perfect Stu]

WTF? Why would she make him drive 4 hours in order for her to "maybe" break up with him?

None of this seems to make sense...

I don't understand why people can't communicate more efficiently...

[Jonbo298]

interesting. I don't know enough about my cousin to give you advice on what to do. But ummm.....good luck

[rottwylor]

Originally Posted by Ace195

Ok. I drove 4 hours to see my girlfriend up in her dorm room. And now I can't even get a "French Kiss" she doesn't seem to want me here even though she begged me to be here.. It's like I don't understand why would you invite me and make me drive 4 hours to just ignore me ? I mean we had a good afternoon and a good evening and what not but then all hell broke loose. And now she left the room because I wanted to put my shirt on ( no bad ideas I was chaning) before she opened the door. I got mad and then she left and still hasn't come back I mean I am right arent ?

le sigh... come over to the darkside... I'll help ya out

[DimHalo]

Originally Posted by jeepnut

Somethings definitely up. You're are going to have to investigate. And by that I mean, let her know that you know that something is not right and then ask her to tell you what it is.

i agree... i really doubt that she wants to break up with you

did you talk to her yet?

mood swings is very likely, or she could have been having a rough time and thought that having you there would help it... then when you got there she realized she just really needed a friend (i get like that sometimes)

of course this is all speculation... especially since, by now, you've probably already dealt with things in one way or another

[Crash]

if it's her first year in college, your F#$@%! because girls first begin to realize how many other guys are out there... yeah, i know all about how that works >

[Blackmane]

Just try talking. It'll do wonders.