[Dylflon]

I don't hold marriage as a point in my life where I'll begin doing things or my life will radically change course (until babies come into the picture). My girlfriend and I plan to get married but we also plan to move in together well before that because we want to live together.

Neither of us look at marriage as something that will change our dynamic aside from financially. We're together now and we'll be together then too.

I agree with you about sex in a committed relationship although I haven't had any one-night stands to compare it to (only fooling around but that doesn't count). Both ladies I've had sex with I was dating. I do however kind of regret losing my virginity to my first girlfriend since it wasn't a long relationship and the sex wasn't good. Coupled with the fact that I'm the only person my girlfriend has slept with makes me feel a little guilty.

I'm not uptight about sex or anything, I probably would have slept with a couple more people if I was single and given the opportunity. I missed a few chances that I didn't know about until later and aside from that, I've only been straight up propositioned while I've been in a relationship. I think sex in a relationship is probably better because you're comfortable with one another and you can lock into each other's rhythm making sex a much more enjoyable experience.

I'm not even sure what I'm talking about anymore...just rambling