[manasecret]

I had a nice fling with a girl who had a young girl. It pretty much ended as soon as it begin. Single parents enjoy and need flings as much as the rest of us, so no need to feel guilty if it doesn't work out.

But if after awhile it feels like the relationship could last, then you and her need to discuss your expectations and hers on how you will be involved with the child.

And if your feelings change and you feel like you don't want to deal with that anymore, then that's fine. Just tell her that honestly and as soon as you know your feelings have changed.