[manasecret]

I agree with everyone here. I think you should treat your wedding with a little more respect than your drunken birthday party.

Of course, maybe using facebook as a pre-pre-invite, so that it's not a replacement of the physical invitations would be acceptable for me. Though I think that's skirting the heart of the question.

But on the other side, we just received this (IMHO) ridiculous wedding invitation that has this bow at the top of the card so the envelope is like half an inch thick at one part and looks ridiculous. I think some people go too far with their weddings.