[Angrist]

We see relationships as something for the long-term. We also believe the promise of the bible that we can receive eternal life on earth. So we're not really in a hurry. And of course we don't have sex before marriage.

Also we're encouraged to get to know how we are in groups. You usually act differently when you're together alone with somebody.
And like she said, this way we (and others?) won't have too high expectations from this.

I received a nice e-mail back tonight. She told me about her day etc. Was a happy mail.