[Zen]

I only now stumbled into this topic and read all of it, and I would have to pretty much agree with everything KG said here, apparently you do as well, which is good.

You just need to man up and act on things, lets say she is interested, you not acting out could DEFINITELY let that interest fade away.

And yes, actually going out somewhere out of your normal life cycle would be the best option, make it a date, make it official.