[KillerGremlin]

First off, let me say this: What comes around goes around is bullsh*t, at least in the family. Family members seem to f*ck people over more so then anyone else, especially if they are not emediate family.

But, do you really want to go through life living on welfare, getting money from a source that will eventually die? I mean, I see it all the time. I live in a relatively rich town, and I see kids, kids that abuse drugs and are idiots, get new cars from their parents. These kids are getting BMWs from their parents, and if they crash the BMW, their parents will buy them a new one.

Right now, it sounds unfair. You are working your ass off, and your aunt isn't giving you anything. But look at you: you are amounting to something. I would take immense satisfaction in knowing that I was going to be somebody. Society frowns upon moms that got knocked up and decided to drop out of high school. One day, you might have a family, a happy family. One day, you will be putting food on the table, you will be living in a house, and you will be somebody. Maybe one day you will have kids, kids who you can give things too. Ultimately, what goes around WILL come around.

I mean, you have pay to go to France, but think about the experience that it is! Millions of people wish they could travel, and you're traveling and earning an education. Think of it as paying for an education with benefits.

Your cousin is milking society. She sounds like a nobody right now, and I'm sure she is married to a dynamite individual. She is pumping out kids, and I feel sorry for those kids. She has nothing, and I'm sure she is not happy. And eventually, her source of income will be lost, and she will be left with nothing.

You are learning things, and doing things with your life. So what if you don't get a free new car, you get something better, you get to experience life. Money doesn't bring happiness, and I guarantee you, you will be happier in the long run.

And.......your cousin is one of the many people that society has to pay for in their taxes......so don't take much offense to this, but your cousin is dragging society down. Get a job, so the people who have jobs don't have to pay for you. Had a kid? That's your problem....