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For there to be a choice in this, you have to have two options. If you cannot get an erection from the idea of having sex with a man, you cannot have sex with them, so there is no choice.
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No, there is a choice. I chose who/what gives me an erection based off of certain qualities they posess and the situation.
An erection is a part of sex, you don't have an erection then chose your target. You chose your target then you have an erection.
Same case scenario for men and women. There are girls who can't give me an erection just like there are guys who can't give me an erection, but they are all options. I
chose not to have sex with a guy because I'm not attracted to him, just like I
chose not to have sex with a girl because I'm not attracted to her.
Just because a guy has never given me an erection before doesn't mean I'm incapable of getting one from a guy. I've just never experienced that. (And because I think it is immoral I won't act on it... or try not to at least.)
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Its a part of who you are.
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Yep, that is what I said in my last post.
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Arguments about choice in homosexuality are arguments that attempt to justify bigotry and the illusion that gay people could become straight anymore than I could have sex with another man even if I "chose to".
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Did I ever say gay people could become straight? NO. Did I ever say you are capible of having sex with a man? NO. I'm not trying to argue that. You like what you like and you don't like what you don't like... may it be girls, guys, elephants, small children, or your hand. Do you chose what you like and what you don't like? Well, do you believe in Free will? However you answer the second question is how you answer the first.
Is it my right to think what you like is immoral? Yep. Is it your right to think what somone else likes it immoral? Yep.
(Edit: Also, I'm not trying to argue against gay people. You asked me if I thought my own sexuality was a choice, and I see it as a choice. I don't think gay people can beome straight unless they suddenly prefer women to men... which isn't likely. Just like it isn't likely for me to completly change what I like over night.)