I'm sorry to hear that man.
All I can say is that God is not responsible for today's problems... mankind is. You say it yourself: "Mostly it's my Aunt's stupid fault."
God doesn't interfere with earth business at the moment, but here will be a time where he will do that again. There are lots of prophecies of that in the bible...
I hope your dad doesn't quit his job...
Anyway, have a good time with the baptists.
