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Originally Posted by The Germanator
My personal outlook on this so far in life is to look for serious monogamous relationships. I'm beginning to question whether this is the right way to go at this point, being in college and all. I've heard many conversations around college where people have been talking about their casual make-out sessions with whoever, and then they may not talk to that person for a few days. This has always sat wrong with me...I haven't yet been able to just make-out with a girl I barely know, because I need to feel something, and if it's just going to be a one time thing, that's hard for me to handle. Perhaps I should just drink more alcohol, then I wouldn't care, but that's not really my style either...I sometimes just never know whether a girl wants more than to just make-out, or whether she may take that as a step towards a serious relationship that I never wanted to begin with. It's a dangerous game that I've been too afraid to play.
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It's scary how my feelings toward this is exactly the same as you. I can't stand making out with someone that I don't know because it feels wrong. It goes against my morals as well. I know that I'm only 17, but I don't really want to date a lot of people throughout my life. I just want one person really..though I realize it will take a few to possibly find the right one. Too bad it's so hard to tell what one thing means, such as making out with someone, as you've explained. It is these things that makes dating and relationships such a delicate situation.