[Perfect Stu]

Now that I read more into it, it sounds like you're being played like a fiddle. Only question is, whats the tune?

I know people can be weird, but holy Christ, listen to the Beatles' "We Can Work it Out"...plain and simple, find the problem and fix it, get your ass OUT of the situation, or find the problem AND get your ass OUT of the situation.

If you're going to waste your time thinking about this or that and the other thing, holding your head down and all that sh*t, then you LET her do it to you. If she has a problem that she has to deal with herself, stay the hell out of the way...she shouldn't have even asked you to come over. If she has a problem that she needs help from you with (doesn't sound like it), GET IT OUT IN THE OPEN and talk about it.

If not you're going to have your strings plucked until the cows come home.