I hate my father
 

My father cheated on my mother. She is such a sweet woman, even though she kinda expected it, she was on the phone crying...

For several years now, he didn't pay any attention to his family. He was just sitting in his office, 'working' all day, while in fact he was watching porn and chatting with girls.

He met a girl that was 20 years younger than him, they even had plans to live together! They met, slept and the next day she dumped him.

But he still wants to leave. He's tired of his wife, his family and his religion.

Well, I say good riddance. :mad:

Damn. :baby:

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i think most people hate their fathers, and usually for good reasons. maybe the next generation will be better?

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Aw man. Sorry to hear that.

It makes me appreciate my own father.

Hope your family can pull through it.

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I don't think most people hate their fathers at all. I think many have issues withn them and minor power struggles but hate is not a word I would use in retrospect.

But I'm sorry to hear about this Canyarion. If it helps at all, I think your dad is a spineless, morally corrupt, immature sack of ****.

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Heh, thanks. :) We all have our ways of comforting eachother. ;)

Bah. :( I don't even want to see him next weekend when I'm going home....

And we will pull through...

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This happened to a close friend of mine. The situations are eerily similar. I feel for you, man. Stay strong.

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Well that just plain sucks man. :(

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Hey... just hang in there, alright? Things happen and if you can't do anything about it, just get on with it. I know I am sounding harsh and if I do, please let me apologise.

This is gonna come out sounding like a huge cliche but stay stong for you mom. There's nothing worse for a woman than to watch her own marriage dissolve regardless of it being expected or not.

Better stop now before I turn this into my own Aunt Agony section. I wish you and your family all the best.

BTW, is swearing tolerated in this forum? I just got censored so I was wondering...

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When I was in 8th grade my mom found out that my dad had been having an affair for the past 3 years. Yeah not the best of times.

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I'm going to pretend I didn't just read that. I love my dad.

And I'm very sorry to hear that Cany. :( Things will work out in the end though. They always do.

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Sorry to hear

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Just the Strudels and Fudgecakes.

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Sorry Canyarion, it seems like you're handling it well though, even though you're sad and angry you're maintaining yourself in a good manner or so it seems. Keep an eye on your brother and mom also and make sure they remain healthy about how they deal with the announcement. Maybe spend a little more time with them for the next couple of weeks.

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sorry i made such a sweeping generalization, apparently it offended people. anyway, all i'm saying is that most of the people that i know(excluding vampyr OBVIOUSLY) hate and/or dislike and/or go through a period of hating/disliking their fathers. while your father did a terrible thing, keep in mind it could be worse. i hope you and your family pull through it though.

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I'm sorry to hear about this Cany :(

My dad cheated one my mom for a few years when I was growing up and they separated for a while. Ever since then, it hasnt felt like I've had two parents, just a mom and a dad. They don't have much love towards each other and stayed together just for the sake of my brother and I. It's safe to say that they'll split after I'm off to college, but I still love them both.