How Far Is Too Far?
 

Okay, so, let's say you're alone with a significant other and you start to do your thing? How far do you, personally, take it? How far do you go before it becomes too far?

Is kissing enough for you? Do you think a little fondling never hurt anyone? Or do you just do all out?

Don't, eh, get too descriptive...

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I, personally, probably wouldn't have a problem with touching. Anything more, though, starts invading into the "immoral and wrong" area.


/me shrugs and walks away

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

Well Honestly I've already been all the way several times.

It wasn't special with the first person I did it with. It was a nice release, but it was just a tiny bit better than going all the way with myself.

Lol, Sorry, but I had to say that to get my point across.

With the second person I did it with it was very special. Different somehow, more intimate. It felt like the first time all over again, except 100x better.

Anyway, I think that it's ok to go all the way on the first date if you want, it just depends on how you and your significant other feels about those kinds of things.

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

I've never had a real opportunity to test this question but whenever I'm getting off at the thought of a scenario like this, it always leads to 'going all the way'. I never regret it after we're finished. It feels great and we both enjoy it. And safety is always taken so no one has to worry about unexpected surprises in 9 months. I advise you to talk it over with your partner so that when intimate moments arise, you can start your engines without any delay.

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

Same exact scenario for me except for the last part. I think that you should be in love with someone before you do the nasty.

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

I've gone all the way with my g/f's only after a long time together. I almost never rush into that sort of thing. It is weird.

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

No that's not weird at all, that's just the way you are about that kind of thing. It's very respectable!

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

I'm a virgin. :D

So yeah.... me and my gril touch a bit, but not breasts and stuff... We're waiting for our wedding. Oh isn't that cuuuute! :love:

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

Thats nice, but it is really hard to wait. I will have real respect for you if you can wait that long to do anything. It is so tempting. Sooner or later you will break down and have a good time with her. That is just my drunk opinonin though, so don';t worry.

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

Theres a time and place for everything.

If you think its time to take it father, do so. If its not, she'll let you know. Just like if she wanted to go farther, and you dont think its appropriate, You would (possibly) stop her.

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

I don't have a set limit to stop at.

Just whatever goes through my head.

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

Hehe Blackmane, we'll see. :D

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

I am still a virgin and plan on staying that way until I am married. And I am already 22. It isn't that hard to wait.

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

I kinda wish I would have waited but then I would have only wondered... I'm happy with where my life went. :)

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

That brings up a good point.

Who wishs they were still a virgin?

I do at times. But then I think about how my life could have been stuck in a rut because of it. (too many details) It is then that I am glad that I didn't wait, but then I always wonder, "What if?"

Re: How Far Is Too Far?
 

I decided when I was in 8th grade that I didn't want to have sex with just anyone, that I wanted to wait until I got married. Then, around my senior year in high school, I had changed my opinion to "well, if I really care for the guy, and he really cares for me... I guess I'll do it" Luckily, no one was in the picture at that time. Then I found my faith and reaffirmed that I wanted to wait. And I am happy for it.