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You're saying I lack confidence with girls, now?

Gimme a break...I used to be a player...and not one of those losers who the girls seem to like even though the guy treats them with no respect...I was just nice (and "charming") to everyone and I was "the guy" at school. Never liked it, but that's the way it was for a good 3-4 years.

Two of my closest friends are attractive females who adore me (as a friend). I treat females with respect and consideration, but dont butter them up without being honest. The girls that I know cling to my side because they say I provide a level of comfort and security. But when it comes to ROMANCE, I know when a girl is out of my league. If you think that shows lack of confidence, then so be it. I know for a fact that if I meet a very attractive young lady with a booming personality, there is no way I'd have a chance with her. There's just not enough to me...that's not how I view myself, that's just how I am.

There are tons of guys easier on the eyes and have better personalities than myself...the girls know that just as much as I do, and I'm fine with that. Lack of confidence? Nope. Firm grasp of reality? Yep.

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Im sorry, did you miss the like...what was it? Third line?

I was kidding.

Nothing I have said in this thread was serious.

Except the me and hot girls thing.

I didnt mean anything I said to you, 'Twas all in good fun.


And Jonbo, thanks for the shiny red pip, I shall wear it proudly. :)


EDIT:

Wait...where Did I say you lack confidence with girls?

Re: What turns you on?
 

Typhoid, you just have to accept that no matter what you say, people take offense to you. :D

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i honestly think relationships are based on compatibility...not leagues...its not a sport...people arent classified in leagues :unsure:

if an awesome girl with the whole package of looks, personality and brains fell in love with the ugliest most obnoxious guy in the world; so let her be if shes in love and she feels good being wiht him...if she feels she loves him but he embarasses her when theyre a couple...i dont think she has much of a personality then does she?....*shrug*...people these days are so superficial...

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and for the compatibility to be there with an attractive female, a guy almost always has to be at least DECENT looking.

I wish I could say otherwise...lots of pretty girls will say "oh no it has nothing to do with looks" but the only guys you'll see them with are at least pretty good looking. Coincidence? No.

but I dont feel sorry for myself or any of that garbage...

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Good because I don't say publicly when I get -rep

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well...i wouldnt say all good looking girls have the whole package...lol...most of them are jsut shallow..they say things to make themselves look a lil less superficial than waht they really are *shrug* ....ull find one..rare...but theyre out there...

Re: What turns you on?
 

Frankly, this thread has gone away from things that turn you on.

Back to the topic on hand.

Ok, so where does everyone like to be touched?

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*blush*....so many many places.....:p

.......unmentionable...lol....

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hmmm...
anywhere but my back... i don't know... i guess that means i don't trust people? i don't mind the back of my neck though.

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What turns me on?

To be honest probably a guys eyes. I like the dark mediterranean look, even though I'm going out with an Australian.

Also their personality. If they are kind and funny, that scores instant appeal for me. I think personality is the most important for me.

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That's exactly what I was saying earlier. Looks always matter, at least on some level. They are more important to some people than others, but they still ALWAYS matter.

And I like to be touched anywhere, really. ;) I do like girls to play with my hair, because it feels great and is very relaxing, but I only like it when it's done later in the day and I'm not going to be in public for much longer, if any at all. I hate to have my hair messed up. It ticks me off when someone messes it up, and I don't care how pretty they are.

I like touching hands, too. Not just holding, but touching. I love it when a girl has pretty hands.

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I like my hair and head to be rubbed. I also love back massages. So nice!

But of course, I am not picky with where I am touched.

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I like to have my inner thighs rubbed and stroked with someone else's sensual legs.

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I like to be touched on the back and on my knee/thigh. Those are the mentionable places.