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Angrist, I bet when you're trying to be the devil's definition of mean, you're still a fairly nice guy:) Be only half nice okay? Goodluck!!

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Oh don't worry, I'm not that nice. I usually take way too much time to show a girl I like her.
Now I have a new problem. They looked pretty good when I saw them irl, but now that I see the pictures we took... they look scary. :confused:

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Well, now you need to post those pictures so we can judge.

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Hehe, I was afraid you'd say that. ;) But no, I'm not going to do that. Imagine they're good looking 31ers with an unfortunate smile.
The hinting girl concluded a mail to me with "see you soon!" ...

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Beer goggles?

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You could have definitely been suffering from what is known as "being drunk while judging a girls appearance".

But also, some people just don't photograph well - while looking completely normal otherwise. Could depend on angle, timing, flash, lighting, etc.

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Well, I was on a picture with Marit Larsen once. The guy taking the picture suggested she laid her head on my shoulder and she did. That made me smile so terribly bad that I never show anyone that picture. I'm so ugly on it.
So yeah that's possible.

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I think the more important thing isn't how they look in pictures, but how you perceive them to look in real life.

Unless, that is - you plan on attempting to date photographs of them. If you're attracted to them when you're in person, what does it matter how they look in pictures.

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You're situation sounds like a sitcom, Angrist! Twins! Or a Coors Light commercial I guess.

I'd agree with Typhoid though. Hasn't everyone looked horrible in a picture or few? I know I have...

Now I'm going to turn to my own situation...So I met and stayed with this girl in Brooklyn (don't giggle yet, it was a pretty PG situation), and we had a good time hangin' out the next day. It kind of felt like a weird first date. Anyway, obviously the problem is that she lives and works in New York and I don't though she says "you have a place there anytime you want." Delaware isn't worlds away, but it's still not an ideal distance for a new romance. It's kinda lame because she's probably the only gal I've had some interest in for the last couple of years. I guess I need excuses to go up to Brooklyn every once in a while. You wanna hang out, Earl? :)

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Earl even gets attention in the girls thread.

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:ohreilly:

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I definently agree with this. One of the girls I work with is a perfect example of bad in photos but amazing in reality. But I think it's mostly because she has a kinda goofy looking smile and she's always cheesing too hard in pictures... but she's a straight dime. I'll need to find a pic of her lol

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This thread has gone on for two years and Angrist still hasn't seen any boobies.


Someone show this man some tits!

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Boobies!





And a pair of great tits.

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Hm you could definitely meet her again. Distance relationships are hard, but you can always decide what to do later. Maybe you'll discover after 1 more 'date' that she's not worth it. Or maybe it will be the start of something good.

Yeah those twins... We'll see how it goes. I wonder when I'll see her/them again.

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Yeah, I kinda plan to. Another thing is that she's friends with my cousin who she plans on visiting in Delaware sometime soon. Though she also specifically mentioned seeing me during that visit as well. The way my luck goes that will be the same weekend I was planning to go up to Brooklyn. Anyway, yeah, I'm kind of just waiting to see how our next encounter goes and we'll take it from there. I understand that the odds are generally against it making sense.

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Why not just ask her to hang out?
Is it really so beyond logic to go to the city to just see and hang out with her, without needing another reason to be there?
Am I the only one who doesn't find that weird? :confused:

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Hm well it depends on your personality. I also think it wouldn't be weird, but when I was Germy, I probably would be too afraid to ask it that way. It would be out of character for me.
But that's me always afraid of taking things too fast...

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Yeah, you're completely right, Typhoid. I generally over think these kind of things, and as Angrist said, it just not necessarily how my brain works with this situation. My brain goes to "oh, she'll be weirded out, we barely know each other", that kind of thing. Again, I admit that it's dumb, but it's hard to rewire the brain to think differently.