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So literally 2 minutes after I post this, she contacts me on facebook and wants to know how I am doing. Shazam!

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Someone make a new thread!

Bond is a playa and Szymon might have a new place to park his penis...I mean prius.

Seriously.

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One of my sisters friends is really in to me and wants to sex it up, but im pretty sure she wants a relationship that I dont really want.

And thats my budding romance story.

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Not to mention shes like 16 and emo to the max, and has some other bad habits......

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Yeah that to.

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tell us more....
emo...16...bad habits?

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Firecrotch

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what's wrong with that?
redheads are freaky

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Did I say anything was wrong? just dishing out the info.

piercing in her lip x 2

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hmmm...well you made it seem like it was a bad thing :p
there must be some defining characteristic that is offputting besides the hair and piercings

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Fucking weirdo

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haha duh. i thrive on weird. and derailing angrist's thread.

But I'm no weirder than you firecrotch hating canadians.

(and i'm dating a redhead so i'd know)

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Red heads are bloody hot.

And she's not that red headed.

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Not you, her.


And shes not that red headed, despite having red hair.....?

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Oh, bummer....oh well.

redheads ftw!


http://keithwrites.files.wordpress.c...1200-22254.jpg

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I was informed bright and early this morning that Adam may have a story to add. :P

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Is it about how you suck at life?

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More or less

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So it turns out she didnt want to get into a relationship, she just wanted to have sex.

So I nailed her.

And Earl sucks at life.

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For once, I am the victim in all of this.

*Evil stare at Swan*

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I have a story for you guys, and it's the reason I haven't been here all this time!

Okay, so I just recently broke up with my girlfriend that I was with since October of 2006. I've had problems with her for a long time..and it was getting really out of hand. I don't really feel like typing all of the details, but I'll guide you all to the reasons as to why I haven't been here for a year and a half.

So basically, at the start of the relationship, Sarah (my most recent ex) and I would talk a lot, and it so happened that when I talked about my past I talked about my previous ex-girlfriend to her a lot. I would complain about a lot of things that I went through in that relationship to Sarah, and over time she got sick of hearing it all.

So after about five months, she decided she wanted me to stop talking about her, and also decided that she never wanted to hear anybody talk about her. This was in March of 2007. When summer came along, she was so bothered by everything that I said about my ex that she wanted the whole damn story so she could be clear about it all. But by this point I didn't want to mention any more details about my ex, so I started lying about things to just get the whole thing over with, and I also lied because there are just some things better left unsaid.

She of course found out I was lying, and managed to get the truth out about everything, so that really ruined our trust. At this point, she wanted me to get rid of any possession I had from the time period that I was with my ex. That meant everything too. She even found out that I wrote things about my ex girlfriend in Gametavern, and you can ask bond about how I had to ask him to delete those posts, since they were too old for me to access. And that's why she didn't want me coming back here.

So basically, it was a relationship based on no trust after that, and here I am, and that's why I haven't been here.

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That's quite a story. Sounds like she was pretty insecure. I mean, to forbid from you visiting an online video game forum, that's just crazy.

And you better never leave us for a girl again :p

And someone please resize that damn picture. I had to scroll side to side to read his story.

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I had no idea that's why you wanted me to delete the posts! I delete anything no questions asked.

That's a pretty crazy story, though. Definitely doesn't sound healthy, and it's good that you are past it!

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Interesting story, Zebra. I oddly had something relatively similar happen to me with my ex, though she was jealous of a girl that I was only friends with and never romantically linked with. I once left my Facebook account on and she had seen that I had been messaging the female friend a couple of times...There was really nothing bad in the messages, but she kind of freaked. It certainly wasn't a high point in the relationship.

Anyway, I really wish I had something new to bring to the table, but my love life has been pretty dreadful since my ex and I broke up almost a year ago. I kind of have a thing for an old college flame, but I've seen her a few times and I don't see any interest from her. I really need to move out of my 'rent's house and move to Philly or something so I can actually meet people.

The only true positive that came out of it is that it inspired me to lose weight and I'm now easily in the best shape of my life. So at least theoretically I should look more attractive to the ladies.

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How are you the victim?

Anyway, I find that when people get in serious relationships the guy has to limit intimate relationships with other girls a lot of the time. I mean you don't see married guys going off to spend an afternoon with their close female friend very often.

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Wow Zebra, helluva story there. Good that it should hopefully stay in the past now.

As for me in relations to this thread, I have nothing. Not that I expect there to be anytime soon....

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you have that yummy signature ;)

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That's a dream never fulfilled :lolz: Meeting her once in person was great even if just a quick autograph.

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I'm sure KG knows part of this story, but what's everyone's opinion on pursuing females that are within close proximity of you.

Meaning like someone you work with or live in the same building or have like similar majors. Someone you see often enough.

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I think it's good that you get to know them in their everyday life. And just hanging out is sometimes better than going on dates.

When things start getting more serious, it's both good and bad, depending on your definition of relationship. Seeing them all the time should be a good, even great thing. But you should still leave room for them to breathe.

And if things go well, but end not so good, that's really bad. It just hurts too much.

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Could either be really good or really bad. I wouldn't hold back just because she was close... Although I'd probably take it extra slow.

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I think that you can't be afraid of a little drama. Maybe it'll blow up in your face, but at least you're doing something. And if something more reasonable comes around in the meanwhile, be man enough to snatch it up and say you're sorry or let it pass.

Then again, who am I to give advice? I have the most masochistic love life of anybody I know.

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Know what is such a bitch to deal with and subsequently still trying to get over with, Approach Anxiety. Bane of my existence that has subsequently cascaded problems in the past.

That is all...

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You know what the cure to that is?




Beer

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Let's just say liquid courage and not discriminate against other liquors. :p

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Oh trust me, I'm well aware Beer (actually anything in general that will loosen me up) brings out the "lighter" side of me. Preferably harder liquor's :p and BaB, anything that can be of liquid encourage is great ;) I just know my boundaries and not an alcoholic like I've seen in some already.

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I myself have a little approach anxiety, but I've been much better about it lately. I think you have to try to understand the reason you feel anxious and tackle that (which I realize is more easily said than done). For me it was feeling inadequate and not desirable, which in turn makes you less desirable. It's not about false boasting, but it is about confidence.

Look people in the eye. For me this was a huge issue because I thought that with guys I was being agressive and challenging, and for girls I was afraid they'd think I was staring. But it has nothing to do with that. It has to do with knowing your own worth, and being your own man, and looking people in the eye because you are good enough.

Now that I have a level of confidence I'm comfortable with, I have a lot more intimate encounters. Unfortunately I also had a really bad breakup a while back and although I'm over the girl, I'm apparently not really recovered. In almost 5 years I've not met a girl that I wanted to be in a relationship with. Sure, sexual attraction is there. But any time that leads somewhere it's just hollow and meaningless and ultimately leaves me more lonely than if I'd just refrained (which I do most of the time anymore).

A very recent development is my ex calling me up and explaining that she just called off her wedding because she still loves me. Part of what she feels is regret, because she really treated me like shit and she knows it. I got together with her to hear her out and she apologized for a lot of stuff that really hurt and she offered a lot of explanations of things that I hadn't understood. That was a release and I'm sure it was stuff I needed to hear. But eventually the encounter turned sexual, and I regret it deeply. I told her straight up that I didn't want anything from her in the way of a relationship and that I just couldn't offer her anything but friendship. But she persisted and eventually I allowed her to seduce me. It's not like it was really a dramatic or regretable encounter. But it did make me realize that I really don't have those feelings for her anymore. I love her, but not like that.

That's complicated in and of itself because on some level I had hoped that I couldn't find love because I still held some remnant of feelings for her. But being with her made me realize that that isn't the case at all, which in turn makes me feel worse because it means that there's something else wrong with me. I'm trying not to get too bent out of shape about it, and I keep telling myself it will come when it comes. But I've played the single game for a long time, and I'm ready to get back in the game.

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Ok I have a weird story again. :D There are these twins that I met yesterday. They're both cute (although 4 years older than me).
Problem A:
Although I can tell them apart (by looks and somewhat by behavior), I can't remember who of the two I told what. I started talking with one, but then later more with the other. Very confusing.
Problem B:
I liked the first one, who was a bit more chaotic than the other. But at the end of the night the other said something that could be a hint. So... I feel like I got the attention of 2 almost identical girls. How do I react to that? :p

PS: This is the possible hint that the other one gave. Our group of 6 people was cheek-kissing goodbye. After the girl and me did that, she kept standing in front of me for a second and told me (with a serious face): 'I had a great time' (freely translated from Dutch). She didn't tell anyone else that. Possible hint? :angel:

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Well, if you can't remember which one you said certain things to, go for both! I'm sure that's what everyone else is thinking, here. Maybe if you remember something else that you said to the girl that gave you the hint that wasn't anything to do with either of them then you could bring that certain thing again to both of them, and whoever responds to it will be the one that you're looking for. Do you remember what the second girl looked like compared to her twin when she said that she had a great time?

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Yeah, that's not the problem. I can tell them apart and I know which one said that.
It's just annoying that I can't remember which one I told I was engaged once. But I bet that because they're sisters, they'll talk about me anyway.

I guess all I can do is be nice to them both and then see which one likes me better.