Girlfriends Madddddd.....

[Ace195]

Well it's a beautiful day in the neighbor hood it's.... (Son of a B*tch) I can never win. My g/f is now mad at me because some girl asked me what I looked like so I sent her a picture because she wanted one. My girlfriend checkes my e-mail from time to time to check up on me and she saw this and freaked out. And she's crying and what not, (>,<) I'm on the phone right now. She keeps saying I don't want you to leave... I love you things like that.. And I feel really bad because I REALLY LIKE this girl. Anyways am I wrong ?

[Jonbo298]

You let her check your emails? Thats real safe. But ummm...if she won't believe that allegedly nothing further was going to happen between you and this "person", then I really doubt it's gonna survive. Try reversing the situation and think what you would do if you were looking at her emails and noticed she sent an email to another man on the 'net.

[Dark Samurai]

i would go with jonbo on this one

the reverse email trick (if you have her password and whatnot)

maybe you should have just lied to her about it, but girls can sense it (pretty damn good i might add) or what you should have done, delete that particular email and none of this would have happen.

Edit: did you at least apologize for it?

[Happydude]

you know what...i don't mean to offend anybody...but your girl is f*cked up!!! first she has major mood swings and now she's b!tching about you sending a picture to somebody over the INTERNET (key word)....it might be just me...but i think she needs help :unsure:



and sorry ace...but there is no other way to put it, i really didn't mean any offence...just stating my opinion.

[rottwylor]

I have a personal opinion on this. Well... maybe two. A) I don't care how close you are to someone, you should always maintain a little privacy. Don't be giving your email password to your gf or bf.. thats just stupid (not name calling, in general). B) Don't be giving your picture out to people if you have someone you're serious with, it makes you look bad no matter how innocent it is. Make a facelink like I did =) facelink.com/rottwylor

Privacy... facelink... happy relationship... lotsa sex....

Thats my advice for the moment.

=D

[Dylflon]

Yeah...well...you sending your picture to someone isn't something i'd deem worthy of crying about. In fact that's just plain silly. What's her problem? Oh...er...if she recently started taking birth control pills...that could be the explanation for wild mood swings.

[rottwylor]

I think it IS something to cry about, considering the internet is now the number one resource people look to when cheating on thier significant other... if my bf was sending out his picture to people, I'd get upset, and vice versa. There is absolutely no reason to be sending your pic to people over the internet, unless you are trying to get to know them. It's typical for guys to make this seem like an innocent misunderstanding and blame the girl for being freaked out about it. I'm putting myself in her shoes... I wouldn't like it one bit..

[Ace195]

I don't even have a response for this yet.l.. who knows... maybe I was wrong

[rottwylor]

I don't even have a response for this yet.l.. who knows... maybe I was wrong

All I am saying, is that girls think WAY differently than guys do... so when you are dating one, you have to be more contientious of what you do that may affect them. Buy her a flower, take her to dinner and a sappy movie, and then don't bring it up anymore... and if she asks "do I look fat in this" always ALWAYS say "No!"

[Kitana85]

:shrugs:

I'm a girl, and I dont think you did anything all that wrong. Just say your say youre sorry and be done with it.
oh yeah, and don't let her near your mailbox

[Ace195]

Yeah but if I change my password now I'm gonna look very suspicious

[Perfect Stu]

why is GT turning into "Taming of the Shrew" produced and directed by Ace195???

Tell her that you thought you didn't do anything wrong, but apologize if she was hurt or offended. Turn on the charm if you have to...if she doesn't forgive you, she deserves to be alone, crying.

[rottwylor]

Yeah but if I change my password now I'm gonna look very suspicious


Your fault for giving it to her. ha

[Ace195]

why is GT turning into "Taming of the Shrew" produced and directed by Ace195???

Tell her that you thought you didn't do anything wrong, but apologize if she was hurt or offended. Turn on the charm if you have to...if she doesn't forgive you, she deserves to be alone, crying.
Because some of my good friends, Hero2, Zero, ominub, Jonbo post here and I don't see them as often as I would. So when I have a problem and what not and I want an unbiased opinion I ask you all.. Because I mean, I'm not asking you to say one is better then the other I'm asking you to tell me weither or not you think I was right and wrong and meh.. It makes for good conversation.. And I'm not trying to "Tame" The "Shrew" I'm trying to understand the "Shrew" and cope.. A wise man once said " The moment you understand women, is the exact moment you die" <~~ My dad told me that but he heard it from someone else..

[fingersman]

I think your girl is a bit insecure, but here's my 2 cents on the topic. Instead of just saying sorry, you should find out why she feels this way and try to understand her point of view of the subject, and then find ways to resolve the issue.

[GameMaster]

You should lie to her and tell her the whole event was just a setup to test her loyalty.

Or you could get mad at her for looking in your e-mail and lie again by saying you sent the girl your picture becuase she was going to design a birthday card for you and that you and the girl were planning a birthday party for her. And then yell at her for wrecking the surprise. Make her feel guilty, lower her self esteem, and make perform favors for redemption. She needs to feel bad about herself. Tell her that her looking at your e-mail was a sign of not trusting you and that your greatly hurt by it. As long as she has little or no self-confidence, you'll be in good shape.

[fingersman]

You should lie to her and tell her the whole event was just a setup to test her loyalty.

Or you could get mad at her for looking in your e-mail and lie again by saying you sent the girl your picture becuase she was going to design a birthday card for you and that you and the girl were planning a birthday party for her. And then yell at her for wrecking the surprise. Make her feel guilty, lower her self esteem, and make perform favors for redemption. She needs to feel bad about herself. Tell her that her looking at your e-mail was a sign of not trusting you and that your greatly hurt by it. As long as she has little or no self-confidence, you'll be in good shape.

Ok please ignore the above quote ;)

[Ace195]

Done and Done, Game she already has low self esteem I'm trying to boost it. I would rather have a girl that makes decisions and gets mad at me then a person who just goes along and complies, because that takes all the fun out of life..

[Jewels]

You let her check your emails? Thats real safe. But ummm...if she won't believe that allegedly nothing further was going to happen between you and this "person", then I really doubt it's gonna survive. Try reversing the situation and think what you would do if you were looking at her emails and noticed she sent an email to another man on the 'net.



i do agree with jonbo on this one, persay if i found an email stating that he sent a picture to another girl on the internet, first i would be pissed and frantic, maybe smack him a few... then eventually calm down and talk about it, like ask dont you have feelings for me anymore? do you want to be with this person more than me? or what the hell are you doing you jackass? things like that, i never have to worry about that my boyfriend he doesnt really chat with people, just friends mainly, and i know all his friends, i have nothing to worry about, were both open on the matter of disscussing anything, but ACE i gotta agree with your gf on this, what were ya thinking? do you want to be with this person instead of the one your with now? ask yourself some questions? your gf has pretty much every right to be upset with you....

[Canyarion]

Sharing your e-mail box with her shows your honesty, doesn't it? She doesn't really understand it, when she finds a 'suspicious' mail, and you explain it, she shouldn't worry. You're not doing anything behind her back, right?

Your girl has issues. :unsure:

[DimHalo]

i was asked to give my opinion in this thread so here goes:
First, if she knows your password that is fine... i know my friends/boyfriend's passwords.
Second, although she should not be checking up on you (eventhough she knows your password she should respect your privacy)
However, since she did find something out you should be open and direct with her... she may have a hard time accepting that sending the picture is innocent
...This is because girls are timid and fearful in nature. Especially if she has low self esteem (which you said she does). Her first instinct will be to get defensive.
You probably shouldn't be sending pictures over the internet...just causes lots of problems. Living in a virtual world creates issues that become too complex to even dive into. I'm not saying that is what you are doing by sending your picture to someone. However, it can escalate.
Finally, if you don't have any interest in the girl you sent the picture to, why not send a picture of you and your girlfriend? Are you not proud to be with her? Or do you want to hide the fact that you are with someone? I don't know the whole story so all that could be entirely wrong. But, these are things that a girl will think about when finding out something like that. I may have more to add later, but that's all i've got to say right now.

PS: talking it out is the best thing to do