So Pissed....

[Ace195]

Ok. I drove 4 hours to see my girlfriend up in her dorm room. And now I can't even get a "French Kiss" she doesn't seem to want me here even though she begged me to be here.. It's like :wtf: I don't understand why would you invite me and make me drive 4 hours to just ignore me ? I mean we had a good afternoon and a good evening and what not but then all hell broke loose. And now she left the room because I wanted to put my shirt on ( no bad ideas I was chaning) before she opened the door. I got mad and then she left and still hasn't come back I mean I am right arent ?

[Bond]

Maybe it's because you're going to a foreign land.

[jeepnut]

Ok. I drove 4 hours to see my girlfriend up in her dorm room. And now I can't even get a "French Kiss" she doesn't seem to want me here even though she begged me to be here.. It's like :wtf: I don't understand why would you invite me and make me drive 4 hours to just ignore me ? I mean we had a good afternoon and a good evening and what not but then all hell broke loose. And now she left the room because I wanted to put my shirt on ( no bad ideas I was chaning) before she opened the door. I got mad and then she left and still hasn't come back I mean I am right arent ?

Somethings definitely up. You're are going to have to investigate. And by that I mean, let her know that you know that something is not right and then ask her to tell you what it is.

[Perfect Stu]

4 hours? damn man...what happened?

"All hell broke loose"
"Put my shirt on before she opened the door"
"I got mad"

:confused:

[Vampyr]

I recommend bying a brown trench coat, and a smoking pipe.

Then get a large magnifying glass, and snoop around her dorm room. :)

j/k....

You can either,
A. Say nothing and hope it gets better (not recommended)
B. Talk to her (recommended)
C. Consider the fact that she could be, uh, you know...moodswings...etc. etc. do I have to make myself any more clear? *uncomfortable stare*

[Dylflon]

Perhaps she was distracted by feminine issues?

[GiMpY-wAnNaBe]

its funny you should lmention that, i had a similar problem with my ex...notice, my "EX". Although its a 10 minute walk to her house, the point is she begged me to come over, this was at 8...so already i'm like "wtf?". After that, one little peck on the lips, and then, get this - she slept for four hours, and i had to wait in her room the entire time...playing on addictinggames.com :p. and then i figured what was actually going on, she WANTED me to break up with her. Girls do this quite often, and i have a friend who's doing it to her bf right now. although i can't guarantee anything, you seem to be in a similar predicament. the best thing is to find out from her friends whats going on, because she just WON"T tell you some things. Although a lot of you probably will critisize me for saying to go to his gf's frinds, you know its true, its the fastest and most efficient way to find out. theres a good chance she wants to break up with you, but simply doesn't want to say it herself. good luck man.

[Vampyr]

If what gimpy says is true, (this is extremely hypothetical), Than I say dont break up with her. :)

If she's going to do that, just wait and make her miserable until she does it.

Keep in mind that that is VERY hypothetical. hopefully your situation is nothing like this.

[GameMaster]

I hope this little situation is just a misunderstanding and everything is okay again.

[Perfect Stu]

WTF? Why would she make him drive 4 hours in order for her to "maybe" break up with him?

None of this seems to make sense...

I don't understand why people can't communicate more efficiently...

[Jonbo298]

interesting. I don't know enough about my cousin to give you advice on what to do. But ummm.....good luck

[rottwylor]

Ok. I drove 4 hours to see my girlfriend up in her dorm room. And now I can't even get a "French Kiss" she doesn't seem to want me here even though she begged me to be here.. It's like :wtf: I don't understand why would you invite me and make me drive 4 hours to just ignore me ? I mean we had a good afternoon and a good evening and what not but then all hell broke loose. And now she left the room because I wanted to put my shirt on ( no bad ideas I was chaning) before she opened the door. I got mad and then she left and still hasn't come back I mean I am right arent ?

le sigh... come over to the darkside... I'll help ya out

:whip:

[DimHalo]

Somethings definitely up. You're are going to have to investigate. And by that I mean, let her know that you know that something is not right and then ask her to tell you what it is.
i agree... i really doubt that she wants to break up with you

did you talk to her yet?

mood swings is very likely, or she could have been having a rough time and thought that having you there would help it... then when you got there she realized she just really needed a friend (i get like that sometimes)

of course this is all speculation... especially since, by now, you've probably already dealt with things in one way or another

[Crash]

if it's her first year in college, your F#$@%! because girls first begin to realize how many other guys are out there... yeah, i know all about how that works >:(

[Blackmane]

Just try talking. It'll do wonders.

[Dylflon]

Perfect Stu: Sometimes girls can be really screwed up.

Rottwylor: Trying to convert Ace to homosexuality doesn't fix anything.

...Or does it?

[rottwylor]

Perfect Stu: Sometimes girls can be really screwed up.

Rottwylor: Trying to convert Ace to homosexuality doesn't fix anything.

...Or does it?

Sorry... I was "sleep typing"

I meant to say "Get drunk and go to a titty bar" :green:

[Ace195]

Ok I'm gonna read reply and then edit with other replies..... Gimpy we've been dating for I'd say 8 months she stood by me while I was over in Ft. Lee VA to finish my training and didn't cheat on me or anything. She comes to visit me ever 2 weeks. So I'm not sure on that :(

i agree... i really doubt that she wants to break up with you

did you talk to her yet?

mood swings is very likely, or she could have been having a rough time and thought that having you there would help it... then when you got there she realized she just really needed a friend (i get like that sometimes)

of course this is all speculation... especially since, by now, you've probably already dealt with things in one way or another

She might be having mood swings, and I tried talking to her and she said was between her and the wall.. and the she went and slept on the couch and I'm like umm.. ok.. I'll sleep on the couch. But again if she wants to break up with me oh well, It sux but I'll deal it's not like there aren't other girls out there. That and I'm going to afghanistan for a year and a half. :(

I meant to say "Get drunk and go to a titty bar"


Ok I don't drink that often anymore because well highschool is over, even though I'm in college and whatnot I like to study ect.. j/k I just don't have time


if it's her first year in college, your F#$@%! because girls first begin to realize how many other guys are out there... yeah, i know all about how that works >


Gee thanks crash.. lol... Umm yeah it's her first year at college and she's going to a big university and whatnot..


interesting. I don't know enough about my cousin to give you advice on what to do. But ummm.....good luck

Yeah, jon I'll never date anyone in your family ever again.. Even though your grandma and family are really cool.. they are just tooo messed up for words :(



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[Crash]

dont mean to worry you any, but you just need to sit down and ask her. besides girls go through this thing every month.....you know. it can bring out many worries. dont let the green monster get to you. where does she go anyways?

here's the truth of the matter, i always got worried when i had a g/f go away to college, she never cheated or had second thoughts or anything like that, it was just me being dumb. later I was the one to decide to end things because of the same things i was worried about her doing...

moral of story, dont be like crash.

[Jewels]

Yeah, jon I'll never date anyone in your family ever again.. Even though your grandma and family are really cool.. they are just tooo messed up for words :(

hehehehehehehe.... i always knew jon had a weird side to him, i just didnt want to say anything hehe j/k jon hehe
:D :p
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[Professor S]

Women do not want to feel bad about themselves, so therefore they do not like to break up with their boyfriends if the boyfriend in question has done nothing wrong. What she is trying to do is make you fed up with her so that you end the relationship, and then she is free of any guilt and you become the a$$hole.

Do not give in. Let her f**k up, and then when you catch her don't yell at her because then she'll turn it around on you. Just act heartbroken, shake your head and walk out the door never to talk to her again.

That will f**k her up REAL good. Trust me, I know from experience :drevil: :D

[rottwylor]

Strangler has a point... girls like to be the victems in pretty much anything, that gives them some odd advantage... that and boobs... from what I'm told. I know way too many girls that are passive aggressive and go out of their way to feel like they are the one suffering, when the bf has done nothing wrong. I really can't give any good advice, as I've never been in that situation. I'd go with strangler though.. play it off and make her do the break up. Then tell her you have cancer... that will make her feel like crap even more...

[Professor S]

I'd go with strangler though.. play it off and make her do the break up. Then tell her you have cancer... that will make her feel like crap even more...

LOL!!! YES! Now you're getting it...

REVENGE!!

[Vampyr]

I'd go with strangler though.. play it off and make her do the break up.

It was my idea first. :p

If what gimpy says is true, (this is extremely hypothetical), Than I say dont break up with her.

If she's going to do that, just wait and make her miserable until she does it. :drevil:

But yes, strangler did elaborate upon it nicely. :D

But, remember, this is still HYPOTHETICAL....hopefully things wont come to this. But remember Ace, if things do go downhill, just remember what strangler said...
REVENGE!!

[Perfect Stu]

Now that I read more into it, it sounds like you're being played like a fiddle. Only question is, whats the tune?

I know people can be weird, but holy Christ, listen to the Beatles' "We Can Work it Out"...plain and simple, find the problem and fix it, get your ass OUT of the situation, or find the problem AND get your ass OUT of the situation.

If you're going to waste your time thinking about this or that and the other thing, holding your head down and all that sh*t, then you LET her do it to you. If she has a problem that she has to deal with herself, stay the hell out of the way...she shouldn't have even asked you to come over. If she has a problem that she needs help from you with (doesn't sound like it), GET IT OUT IN THE OPEN and talk about it.

If not you're going to have your strings plucked until the cows come home.

[rottwylor]

... if you shave your head and put stage makeup under your eyes, you'll look like a cancer patient going through chemo.. =)

[DimHalo]

*shakes head and leaves*

[jeepnut]

*shakes head and leaves*

Congratulations boys. You just killed another girl's hope in men.

[rottwylor]

Congratulations boys. You just killed another girl's hope in men.

*rubs hands together* eeeeexcellent.....

:dance:

[Canyarion]

Yeah, jon I'll never date anyone in your family ever again.. Even though your grandma (...) is really cool..
:wtf: :Puke:

[Jonbo298]

Yeah, jon I'll never date anyone in your family ever again.. Even though your grandma and family are really cool.. they are just tooo messed up for words :( [END TRANSMISSION]

Good. Don't:devil:

[Ace195]

Ok.. well I guess things are better today she didn't mope or anything and she even was nice.. I think all went well ? :wtf: I hope but I'm not going to hold my breath :(

[Canyarion]

Hm... so did she give an explanation?? She really should. Try to ask her in a nice and cute way. Communation is key, like Stu keeps saying... :D

[Perfect Stu]

bah, cut the nice and cute act...say what's on your mind...I hate how people express clouded thoughts and emotions

sounds like the storm has settled...or maybe it's just the eye of the hurricane :eek:

sit on it for a while if you think that's what you should do...but damn...you gotta talk about it sometime dude...or like I said, you could get tramped on like ugly daisies.